Being presentable in bed

[Anonymous]

Are any of you still conscious of pleasing your DH/DW/SO etc. in your personal grooming habits and what you wear to bed even on nights when there's no sex? Or have you reached the point where neither of you care?

[Anonymous]

If there's no sex I don't care if she wears her team building exercise '99 t-shirt.

[Anonymous]

Recently upgraded my look... no more pj pants and old t shirts. I just pile on blankets so I can wear booty shorts and no top. Also stay way more on top of hair removal. Great decision!

[Anonymous]

I sleep in a sports bra or bralette and short shorts anyway, and DH is into the athletic look so everyone wins.

[Anonymous]

I've never worried about this with my husband, even before we were married. I just wear whatever.

[Anonymous]

I've always slept naked, regardless of whether or not I'm in the mood. I also always keep myself groomed as I'm more comfortable as such.

[Anonymous]

I always wear nice nightgowns or pajamas - never flannel pajamas with cupcakes on them for example or old tattered t shirts. If something gets worn out or faded, I replace it.

[Anonymous]

Do any of you have children old enough to enter your room by themselves? We do and there is no way any of the lesser clothes options would work!

[Anonymous]

I always wear a nightgown but nothing that would get a rise out of him in bed though it often ends up on the floor. Once in a while I will wear a silk nightie when I am really sending a signal. He always wears boxers which I enjoy getting into before they too hit the floor.

[Anonymous]

Don't you all have to get up with kids in the middle of the night?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do any of you have children old enough to enter your room by themselves? We do and there is no way any of the lesser clothes options would work!

Yes, but I always put my nightgown back on and my DH his shorts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do any of you have children old enough to enter your room by themselves? We do and there is no way any of the lesser clothes options would work!

I have a 5 year old. I keep a robe hung on the wall. DH keeps shorts in his nightstand. Has never been an issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't you all have to get up with kids in the middle of the night?

No. Ds is 5. If he does wake up, DH and I both have clothes next to us to throw on.

[Anonymous]

I keep boxers next to the bed. If my kids see me naked for a moment so what.

[Anonymous]

Clean and naked is what works for me. Robe on foot of bed.