Being presentable in bed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do any of you have children old enough to enter your room by themselves? We do and there is no way any of the lesser clothes options would work!

God, yes. I sometimes wear a bralette & panties to bed, sometimes full on PJs & socks when it is cold, sometimes something in between. Kids come in. Kids jump into bed without warning. After sex and a cuddle I always redress ... and DH does too. I'm less worried about the boy seeing me naked than the girls and the penis. I suppose that is sexist and ridiculous, but there it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do any of you have children old enough to enter your room by themselves? We do and there is no way any of the lesser clothes options would work!

Nudity is only a big deal if you make it one. If kids are raised from the beginning with the understanding that it's natural and nothing to be embarrassed about in appropriate contexts, then that's what it will be.

When the kids were really little, we simply got out of bed naked when they needed something. As they got a little older, they learned to knock and wait until we put clothes on. Not surprisingly, they've also all slept naked since adolescence since they thought it was a given that people stopped wearing clothes to bed as adults.

Anyway, back on topic - I know DW is in the mood when she comes to bed actually wearing something sexy. Funny that clothing means sex, I know!

[Anonymous]

I only wear slips to bed. Well, they look like slips. Some are shorter than others. Some are more sporty, short with a t-back.

He likes watching me get dressed for bed more than what I'm wearing. Like, when I take my hair down.

Boxers for him, always. Sometimes a clean, white tee. That, I like!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If there's no sex I don't care if she wears her team building exercise '99 t-shirt.

Do you wear your business socks, PP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't you all have to get up with kids in the middle of the night?

Both my kids slept through the night before age 2. It's less than once a month - maybe once every three months - that they need us to get up in the middle of the night or come in to our room in the middle of the night.

[Anonymous]

Clean and non-smelling. Other than that I wear what is comfortable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Clean and non-smelling. Other than that I wear what is comfortable.

Best answer.

[Anonymous]

I have worn sweatpants, old boxer shorts, and tattered Tshirts since we first started dating. DH does not seem to care, although recently I have been considering purchasing a cute but not sexy PJ set.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If there's no sex I don't care if she wears her team building exercise '99 t-shirt.

i get this and i find it hilarious

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do any of you have children old enough to enter your room by themselves? We do and there is no way any of the lesser clothes options would work!

Nudity is only a big deal if you make it one. If kids are raised from the beginning with the understanding that it's natural and nothing to be embarrassed about in appropriate contexts, then that's what it will be.

When the kids were really little, we simply got out of bed naked when they needed something. As they got a little older, they learned to knock and wait until we put clothes on. Not surprisingly, they've also all slept naked since adolescence since they thought it was a given that people stopped wearing clothes to bed as adults.

Anyway, back on topic - I know DW is in the mood when she comes to bed actually wearing something sexy. Funny that clothing means sex, I know!

How often do you change your sheets?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do any of you have children old enough to enter your room by themselves? We do and there is no way any of the lesser clothes options would work!

Nudity is only a big deal if you make it one. If kids are raised from the beginning with the understanding that it's natural and nothing to be embarrassed about in appropriate contexts, then that's what it will be.

When the kids were really little, we simply got out of bed naked when they needed something. As they got a little older, they learned to knock and wait until we put clothes on. Not surprisingly, they've also all slept naked since adolescence since they thought it was a given that people stopped wearing clothes to bed as adults.

Anyway, back on topic - I know DW is in the mood when she comes to bed actually wearing something sexy. Funny that clothing means sex, I know!

How often do you change your sheets?

Generally weekly. Is the implication that sleeping without clothes is dirty? Only a person who doesn't would think that.

[Anonymous]

Nothing for either of us. It's how we've slept for our entire marriage. We like the intimacy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If there's no sex I don't care if she wears her team building exercise '99 t-shirt.

Do you wear your business socks, PP?

After I help her Mom with the video machine for the tenth time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nothing for either of us. It's how we've slept for our entire marriage. We like the intimacy.

Amen. So beautiful. And I think it's healthy for the kids to know that Mom and Dad have such a close bond.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't you all have to get up with kids in the middle of the night?

Both my kids slept through the night before age 2. It's less than once a month - maybe once every three months - that they need us to get up in the middle of the night or come in to our room in the middle of the night.

do I smell a humble brag?