Spouse Survey

[Anonymous]

Curious about how people perceive their spouses given all the threads on this forum.

You are:
Man or Woman:
Age:
Years Married:

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family:
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me:
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things:
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me:
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person:

[Anonymous]

I'll play, why not. FWIW think my marriage is pretty good.

Man or Woman: woman
Age: 39
Years Married: 10

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 9
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 8
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 9
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 8
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 8

My husband isn't the most emotive guy, so he's not fawning all over me telling me these things. However, he's a great husband, great dad, good in bed, loyal and kind, etc. He's my best bud.

[Anonymous]

Man
35
9 years

8
9
10
7
9

[Anonymous]

jeez you guys married young

Woman, 39, married 5 years, 9,8,8,10,10
Pretty happy all around with my choices so far.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious about how people perceive their spouses given all the threads on this forum.

You are:
Man or Woman: woman
Age: 42
Years Married: 15

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 9
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 10
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 8
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 8
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person:9

DH is a great husband and dad. He's also been very successful but not at our expense.

[Anonymous]

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 2
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 1
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 2
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 1
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 1

[Anonymous]

Man
48
Married 21 years

I’m the 2,1,2,1,1 guy, so i’ve Got that going for me which is nice..

[Anonymous]

Woman
32
Married 5 years and have a 5 year old

10
10
9
10
10


I feel very fortunate.

[Anonymous]

Woman, 31, 9 years

Straight 10s. He's a great guy. Our relationship isn't perfect, but we both work hard at making the other feel appreciated.

[Anonymous]

Great to see all the positive answers...makes me think many of the complaints in other threads are just minor bumps in marriages where people treat each other well.

To the guy who puts 2s and 1s. How can you stay in that marriage? It sounds soul destroying.

[Anonymous]

Male, 44

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 9
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 8
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 5
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 9
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 9

But:

My spouse has frequent enthusiastic sex with me: 0

Therefore, we're gonna get divorced.

[Anonymous]

You are:
Woman
47
Years Married: 20

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 8
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me:8
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things:7
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me:6
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person:3

[Anonymous]

You are: Woman
Age: 41
Years Married: 9

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 6
My spouse compliments me / validates me / expresses appreciation to me: 8
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 9
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 8
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 6

[Anonymous]

woman
57
30 years

10 to all

Your wording of the questions is a bit sappy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:woman
57
30 years

10 to all

Your wording of the questions is a bit sappy.

Congratulations you won the Best Couple of the day award!