Can I snark for a moment? Gender reveal party $ grabbing, wtf??
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I just saw someone post this on Facebook:
When we did our party we wanted to buy pink and blue tickets, each costing say... 5$ and just like a 50/50 everyone could buy tickets from the gender they thought baby would be. Both tickets go into separate bowls and once the gender is reveals that bowl (pink or blue) has a ticket randomly selected and you have your winner of half the pot, and baby receiving the other half! 
Going to your gender reveal is bad enough, but having to PAY to be at your gender reveal?? What. The. Actual. F**k is wrong with people?? |
Anonymous
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WOW!
The idea has some potential for cute/fun (although I think gender reveal parties are awful to begin with),for the winner to win a prize- but not CHARGING people! Wow. |
Anonymous
| I actually think gender reveal parties can be fun. However, I completely agree that charging guests to attend your gender reveal party (or any party for that matter) is extremely tacky. |
Anonymous
Right?? Just let people pick tickets at the door and offer a prize for the winner. That's cute and fun (if gender reveal parties are your thing), and the hosts are out a couple bucks for the prize. I just left the Facebook group that was posted in. I can't abide that foolishness. |
Anonymous
| Gross. |
Anonymous
| Gender reveal parties are gross gift grabs on a good day. This is just an extension of the overall gross theme. |
Anonymous
| ...and put your $5 ticket in a new hardcover book for the baby in lieu of a card... |
Anonymous
| It sounds like the office lottery pool - winner takes the bowl, right? |
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Anonymous
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I hate gender reveal parties because I don't like knowing the sex ahead of time. These parties celebrate a stereotypical view of what a girl or a boy baby is. Just not a fan.
Amongst our family members (siblings, grandparents and parents), we did have a baby pool that everyone threw $5 in. It was our siblings idea and the winner that was closest to the birth date and sex won it all. We didn't set it up or benefit at all from it. |
dcmom
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| Ugh, gross. |
Anonymous
| My dad said they did a 50/50 contest to guess when I would be born at his construction company workplace in 1991, and they did it when any guy had a kid. So I guess as a concept I don't find it that offensive. But at a gender reveal it's pretty weird. But gender reveals in general are dumb. |
Anonymous
| Are you friends with teenage parents? |
Anonymous
This seems more fun, especially for a dad to be. I wouldn't balk at this. |
Anonymous
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If the ticket is in lieu of presents (from baby shower and all things baby-related), then I see how it could be fun. I assume, however, that this couple plans to to receive more traditional gifts for their baby, in which case $5 on top of that is rather vulgar. |