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Parent wants to talk to DC (17 years old). DC locks bedroom door to keep parent out.
What would you do? |
| The door comes off! |
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| replace doorknob with the non locking type |
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I would tell him/her to open the door immediately. If the door is not opened, the door comes off.
And I am not a hard ass by any means - but this kind of disrespect would simply never happen in our house. I would knock the damn door down before I ever let my teenage get away with that. |
Tell him to pen the door right now - and he would. My teens know I am not fooling around. I taught them when they were very young. |
How does your post help the OP at this moment in time? |
This. I’d be calm but deadly serious. We went through this with our DD when she was 6 and we took the door off for a couple of days. If she tries on rare occasion to lock us out we tell her she’s going to lose her door, and then she opens it right away. |
Wait them out. Hunger, bathroom. |
Yup! But always knocking first |
| Do you have one of those metal key-like things sitting on top of the door jamb? It picks the lock. That has saved us several times. |
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What led up to this OP?
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| Why does your kid feel the need to lock you out? |
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OP do you know how to unlock and indoor door?
If your knob has a straight line in the lock, you take a coin, stick it in theslot and turn it. Door unlocked. I use my finger nail in a pinch. If your doorknob has a hole in the center you should have a straight metal stick that you poke into the hole until it hits the back and then turn to unlock it. You can also straighten out a bobby pin and use that. Indoor locks are not locks. They are a formality to slow people down who are about to barge into the room. They are the easiest thing to pick. I learned back when I was a little kid in grade school. No reason to remove the door unless you are afraid of your kid doinr something dangerous or harmful in there. Just pick the lock. |
+2 -- its easier than you think. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZKQxcZEq7Qc |