In a long marriage/ LTR and still enjoy your sex life with partner? Please post
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Anonymous
| I'm five years into my marriage with my DH. Two kids three and under. We have a fabulous sex life but I'm worried about it becoming boring/routine etc as I so often see posted here. Anyone in partnerships that defy these trends? |
Anonymous
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10+ years with DW
3 kids We have great sex but I could go for more often and more kinkiness. I know I have it way better than most so I try to remind myself of that. |
Anonymous
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We do actually but it is somewhat infrequent (only 1x or 2 a week). When we first started dating, it was at least 1x a day.
15 years married, 20 years together |
Anonymous
^ Oops forgot to add: 3 kids |
Anonymous
| We do it 2+ times/week. Married 20 years. Not sure it is anything but boring and routine, however. It is usually as good as our relationship is going. |
Anonymous
This is key OP if you guys are putting the effort in and taking care of your relationship as a couple things are likley to bode well for you in and out of the bedroom. The fact that you have 2 under 3 andd your sex life is great is a good thing |
Anonymous
| We are 23 years into our marriage. 53 and 57, post menopausal for the 53 year old. We have slowed down to 3ish times a month. What slows us down the most is mainly my back pain. Otherwise, the will and ability is there. |
Anonymous
I'm the PP, I'm sorry, I wasn't clear about who I was. I was a NP, and I do not have two kids under three years old. I have two pre-teen kids. |
Anonymous
| Coming up on ten years, two kids, we still have regular hot sex. We are fortunate that our kids are good sleepers, and aren’t overly needy. |
Anonymous
| DH here. We've been married over 14 years and have one kid. We're 45-46 and do it about twice a week. We're pretty routine (mostly she doesn't want to try anything else) and do the same 3 positions every time. With that said, the sex is REALLY good and its certainly the highpoint of my week. |
Anonymous
| Married 25 years. We are 47 & 48 and have 3 kids over the age of 15. Our sex life has had its ups and downs. I am the DW and confess to not being into it when my kids were young. Five years ago my sex drive went into overdrive and we are enjoying ourselves as we did when we first started dating. We send nude selfies through secure apps and try new things. We are really enjoying this phase in our personal lives. |
Anonymous
+1 - I’m 46 and DW is 42. I know I’m lucky as we have lots of sex and it’s typically very hot and sensual. I do wish for a little variety, for DW to wear more sexy lingerie and for more BJs but I absolutely cannot complain. 3 kids ranging from 10-16. |
Anonymous
| Sex? What is that? 53 and 52, kids 17, 13 and 11. Married 19 years. Down to a few times a year. It sucks. Yes we have communicated about it but has not changed. |
Anonymous
| I'm only a little ahead of you - two kids who are 4 and 6, married just shy of ten years. We've had dips in our frequency of sex during pregnancies and surgeries and such, but still at it a few times a week. |
Anonymous
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Dh and I- both 45
Married 15 years, together 20 years 2 kids- 10, 5 Both of us are very sexually compatible to begin with- both high drive, similar turns on/kinks Pre-kids- frequency was 7x a week sometimes more Post-kids- frequency is about 3x a week sometimes more The frequency could be higher but the quality of the sex is still good. We definitely put more effort into the 3x a week because we have to make it count. |