In a long marriage/ LTR and still enjoy your sex life with partner? Please post

[Anonymous]

Married 36 years and we still enjoy it at least once a week, often twice. After a few thousand times with the same guy it can be a bit predictable but we do enjoy it a great deal. We were never acrobats or gymnasts in bed so we can still do everything we did when we were young....almost. I like the fact that he is more than happy to hop in the sack with a grandmother!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex? What is that? 53 and 52, kids 17, 13 and 11. Married 19 years. Down to a few times a year. It sucks. Yes we have communicated about it but has not changed.

You failed to use the magic phrase "relationship dealbreaker" when you communicated about this. Otherwise, this problem would be totally solved (one way or another).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 25 years. We are 47 & 48 and have 3 kids over the age of 15. Our sex life has had its ups and downs. I am the DW and confess to not being into it when my kids were young. Five years ago my sex drive went into overdrive and we are enjoying ourselves as we did when we first started dating. We send nude selfies through secure apps and try new things. We are really enjoying this phase in our personal lives.

Please name the secure apps. Thank you very much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married 25 years. We are 47 & 48 and have 3 kids over the age of 15. Our sex life has had its ups and downs. I am the DW and confess to not being into it when my kids were young. Five years ago my sex drive went into overdrive and we are enjoying ourselves as we did when we first started dating. We send nude selfies through secure apps and try new things. We are really enjoying this phase in our personal lives.

Please name the secure apps. Thank you very much.

PP here- we use the Between app. We tried a few others but did not like them as much.

[Anonymous]

15 years, 2 kids and pregnant and it's still my favorite thing.

[Anonymous]

8 years, a 3 y/o plus one on the way, we are down to once a week. It’s the least frequent it’s ever been which kind of sucks, and he is not adventurous. But it’s better than nothing!

[Anonymous]

Married over 20 years. Couple kids. We have been holding steady at 2X per week. She’s low libido so this is entirely for my benefit. Although she usually O’s (at least once) she just never thinks of sex, and would go many months before “remembering” to have sex. Not complaining, it works for us.

[Anonymous]

Don’t worry about it, just keep on doing what you’re doing and try to spice things up! My advice is to enjoy it while you can! I’m in my mid-50s and postmenopausal and last year sex has become painful. I truly miss my carefree fun sex days with my husband

[Anonymous]

26 years and it's still fun.

[Anonymous]

61/59.....married 38 years. Multiple "O's" yesterday...on both sides.

It just keeps getting better. She rocks my world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Don’t worry about it, just keep on doing what you’re doing and try to spice things up! My advice is to enjoy it while you can! I’m in my mid-50s and postmenopausal and last year sex has become painful. I truly miss my carefree fun sex days with my husband

I'm curious about this - are you taking anything or using anything to help ease the pain? Same problem here and I'm trying to figure out how to make it better.