Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

The shoe post is gone since it was from her stories. She essentially had like 5 or 6 stories on insta (disappear after 24hrs) giving a tour of her house so she could complain about “Remy the roommate” leaving her shoes everywhere. It just went on and on with the sarcastic complaining and put downs.

Some influencers are so frigging selfish. Save this crap for your real life girlfriends, not the cesspool of social media. Jens KNOWS how vicious and disgusting people are online, especially to young Black girls.

Yet somehow it’s okay to throw your neurodivergent Black teenage daughter out to those same wolves just so you can… promote your boyfriend’s book? Yeah that was the big reveal at the end of the stories 🙄

Ducking gag me. If Jen were single when Remy was younger, she’d probably leave her loser boyfriends to “babysit” often as well. She DGAF. And, yeah I’m not absolving you of responsibility either Brandon. You’re looking like a real Disney dad rn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jen is looking very drag queeny. She really needs to age scale her look and soften. S-o-f-t-e-n! She looks harsh and uncomfortable. She has some very age appropriate but fashionable friends. I’d start with Jessica H.

What is she thinking? Where are her friends? Her family? That entire outfit is horrific. And why does she stand so awkwardly in a short dress like that? Somebody please save her. She needs to stop, this has gotten out of control.

Her friends are equally tacky.
Jessica Honegger is very stylish but a business associate, not a friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First Dave Hollis now Dooce?

Phonies, phonies everywhere

[Anonymous]

Jen was in spiral with Brandon for years. According to her account, only two of her internet mommy friends ever made a comment about the relationship.

Now supposedly Jen has the BEST friends and the BEST family. Yet from Jen’s account, they never said anything. I’m just an internet speculator but it seems like Jen is used to being worshipped by her inner circle. Either they believed the lies she told them about the state of her marriage and turned a blind eye to the visible building resentments or they’re just too afraid to tell her anything.

I lost a best friend when I called her out for being a mistress. She got defensive and I got disgusted. Jen’s friends probably don’t want to rock the boat. Like my old friend situation, I wonder if their relationships with her are rather superficial despite spending a lot of time together…

Now Jen is with someone who treats her worse (publicly at least) than Brandon ever did. Brandon privately cheated on her. Tyler still has an essay about his love for another woman on Facebook. With this other woman, he spent the first year of his relationship with Jen planning a hugely significant and intimate party for his parents, which Jen did not attend. Tyler likes seductive photos of other woman on Instagram and finds any opportunity to undercut Jen.

Not saying one guy is better than the other but the fact is, Jen speaks as if she’s matured while her actions show the opposite. For as brash as she claims them to be, I would not be surprised if everyone in her inner circle is walking on egg shells about Tyler.

Hell, maybe they’re sick of her shit and secretly love watching Jen’s downfall. Hope that’s not the case but we don’t know what goes on behind the scenes and people can get real covertly petty and vengeful when someone close is much more “successful” than them in life.

[Anonymous]

Brandon and Jen both posted the same picture of Sidney from graduation, taken from the crowd. I wonder which one of them took it and whether or not they sat together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know Jen. I know Brandon. I went to ANC. I’m furious.

AMA.

Is Brandon trying to help Remy at all in all of this? The vibe from internet speculation alone is that the kids all seem generally more relaxed and at peace around Brandon. Jen said herself more than once along the way that he has always been the kids’ go-to for all the things. First call in emergencies, thoughtful gift giver… She’s probably a lot of fun at her best, but they always look so much more forced in their posture and smiles when they are posing for or with Jen. They definitely look like they love and respect their mom, but also like putting up with her life/career is a chore and maybe even like they have to take care of her rather than her caring for them. Brandon comes across as the glue of the crew and it’s puzzling why he allows Jen to constantly put Remy on blast like she does.

Is faith a part of Brandon and Tina’s life still? Church life? Or did they drop all of that like Jen did?

[Anonymous]

I'm curious how involved Brandon could be given he's living at that new build neighborhood which is not close enough to Buda for weeknight visits. Is he only seeing her on weekends?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm curious how involved Brandon could be given he's living at that new build neighborhood which is not close enough to Buda for weeknight visits. Is he only seeing her on weekends?

Not living there; that's where he works (and doesn't have to be on site all day to sell properties).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm curious how involved Brandon could be given he's living at that new build neighborhood which is not close enough to Buda for weeknight visits. Is he only seeing her on weekends?

Not living there; that's where he works (and doesn't have to be on site all day to sell properties).

Oh he posted earlier this year that he and Tina were moving--had a whole post about unpacking so I assumed he was FT in RRR which is more than an hour from Buda.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I just looked it up-and someone commented that they'll miss seeing his truck in Buda and he liked it. https://www.instagram.com/p/CnDVd7aLf23/

[Anonymous]

Randomly just occurred to me that the oldest son is a young adult who has been dating the same girl for a long time. Likelihood is high that they will have a wedding sometime sooner than not, where Jen and Barbie are both mothers-of-the-groom together. And can ANYONE picture Tyler showing up for such an occasion and making any sense sitting on that same parental row?? No. Just no. I wonder what tshirt Tyler wears to weddings. 🙄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Randomly just occurred to me that the oldest son is a young adult who has been dating the same girl for a long time. Likelihood is high that they will have a wedding sometime sooner than not, where Jen and Barbie are both mothers-of-the-groom together. And can ANYONE picture Tyler showing up for such an occasion and making any sense sitting on that same parental row?? No. Just no. I wonder what tshirt Tyler wears to weddings. 🙄

The potential drama of all that would be enough reason to just elope and tell the families later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jen was in spiral with Brandon for years. According to her account, only two of her internet mommy friends ever made a comment about the relationship.

Now supposedly Jen has the BEST friends and the BEST family. Yet from Jen’s account, they never said anything. I’m just an internet speculator but it seems like Jen is used to being worshipped by her inner circle. Either they believed the lies she told them about the state of her marriage and turned a blind eye to the visible building resentments or they’re just too afraid to tell her anything.

I lost a best friend when I called her out for being a mistress. She got defensive and I got disgusted. Jen’s friends probably don’t want to rock the boat. Like my old friend situation, I wonder if their relationships with her are rather superficial despite spending a lot of time together…

Now Jen is with someone who treats her worse (publicly at least) than Brandon ever did. Brandon privately cheated on her. Tyler still has an essay about his love for another woman on Facebook. With this other woman, he spent the first year of his relationship with Jen planning a hugely significant and intimate party for his parents, which Jen did not attend. Tyler likes seductive photos of other woman on Instagram and finds any opportunity to undercut Jen.

Not saying one guy is better than the other but the fact is, Jen speaks as if she’s matured while her actions show the opposite. For as brash as she claims them to be, I would not be surprised if everyone in her inner circle is walking on egg shells about Tyler.

Hell, maybe they’re sick of her shit and secretly love watching Jen’s downfall. Hope that’s not the case but we don’t know what goes on behind the scenes and people can get real covertly petty and vengeful when someone close is much more “successful” than them in life.

I think it's pretty common for friends to mind their own business when it comes to general marriage and relationship troubles, or to only say something when asked for advice. Not saying it's right, but people are afraid of saying "he's not right for you" and then having to deal with that person being around for another 10 years. Now, if someone doesn't speak up about cheating or abuse, that is flat-out wrong. Good for you for drawing a line with your former friend!

Maybe Jen acts as if all is great and doesn't seek advice. Maybe she does and it falls on deaf ears and friends are frustrated. Who knows?

[Anonymous]

I think it's pretty common for friends to mind their own business when it comes to general marriage and relationship troubles, or to only say something when asked for advice

The thing is, Jen is like most influencers/wannabes who have all these "friends" who aren't friends AT ALL. Friends have the tough convos with you, and are brave enough to tell you where you need to course correct.

She and her internet "besties" have similar experiences, get together once a year, and then preach about true friendship. They are so deluded. And now Jen has no one to call her out on her awful, awful choices.

[Anonymous]

First Dave Hollis now Dooce?

Dooce is so tragic. She sought so many therapies to help her, including ECT. Has anyone from the blogosphere commented on her memory? Kristen and Jamie went to Peru with her for some poverty-themed trip to promote Krochet Kids, and Dooce wrote an essay about her abdominal pain all the way home.