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Anonymous
I did read the post, thank you very much. I still stand by my opinion that some of this very personal info should not be shared with the masses. |
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This is the post. Interesting that she confirmed that the legal fees are making her pay through the nose.
I wanted to give you guys an update, you’ve been beyond amazing with all of your comments & messages. There’s no way I can reply to each one (I wish I could!) but please know that I see each one, and each one means more to me than you could possibly know. Especially those of you who have similar stories, to know someone else understands what this hell is like...well, it helps, a lot. Right now I’m being told that I can have my girls back tonight if I delete my social media posts. (Among other demands. It’s also his weekend in case you’re wondering why I don’t just take them from school myself) On one hand I want to do anything to just have them come home, but I feel like that’s rewarding his actions, and every time Ive accepted his behavior in the past it escalates the next time, empowering him that he can do what he wants & is never held accountable. I haven’t told you this (because again, I continued to protect him for the sake of the girls) but after I came back online and started blogging again he took me to court. I spent over $8k in attorney’s fees to defend my right to speak my truth. I won the case and my right to continue to speak, so to now, try again to silence me except this time by using my daughters as pawns, it just doesn’t feel right to say yes. I also want to address those of you who don’t understand why the police can’t help me get the girls when they were taken on my day. There are two answers to that... A few years ago this happened, and I did call the police. (The circumstances were far worse that time too) I showed them the custody agreement and that it was my day. They told me that all they could do, unless the children are in immediate danger, is warn him that if he doesn’t release them he can be found in contempt of court. They told me it was a family court matter. I should have filed the very next day but I didn’t, I wish I had then b/c maybe I wouldn’t be here yet again, but I was scared, naive & stupid. The second part is he has lots of friends in the MCPD. There was one time, after we had separated, where I began to become suspicious that he was somehow watching me. (see rest of post in 1st comment below...) |
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Here's the text:
I wanted to give you guys an update, you’ve been beyond amazing with all of your comments & messages. There’s no way I can reply to each one (I wish I could!) but please know that I see each one, and each one means more to me than you could possibly know. Especially those of you who have similar stories, to know someone else understands what this hell is like...well, it helps, a lot. Right now I’m being told that I can have my girls back tonight if I delete my social media posts. (Among other demands. It’s also his weekend in case you’re wondering why I don’t just take them from school myself) On one hand I want to do anything to just have them come home, but I feel like that’s rewarding his actions, and every time Ive accepted his behavior in the past it escalates the next time, empowering him that he can do what he wants & is never held accountable. I haven’t told you this (because again, I continued to protect him for the sake of the girls) but after I came back online and started blogging again he took me to court. I spent over $8k in attorney’s fees to defend my right to speak my truth. I won the case and my right to continue to speak, so to now, try again to silence me except this time by using my daughters as pawns, it just doesn’t feel right to say yes. I also want to address those of you who don’t understand why the police can’t help me get the girls when they were taken on my day. There are two answers to that... A few years ago this happened, and I did call the police. (The circumstances were far worse that time too) I showed them the custody agreement and that it was my day. They told me that all they could do, unless the children are in immediate danger, is warn him that if he doesn’t release them he can be found in contempt of court. They told me it was a family court matter. I should have filed the very next day but I didn’t, I wish I had then b/c maybe I wouldn’t be here yet again, but I was scared, naive & stupid. The second part is he has lots of friends in the MCPD. There was one time, after we had separated, where I began to become suspicious that he was somehow watching me. (see rest of post in 1st comment below...) first comment: I logged into our alarm system account and found that he was accessing the cameras multiple times a day, watching me. (The most bizarre part was he was logging in the most on the weekends I was home alone and the girls were with him) I called the alarm company and changed all the logins as well as the code on the home panel. When he found out he couldn’t access it he, along with @internjohnradio & 5 police officers, showed up at my house and told me I had to allow him inside to change the codes back. (You would be shocked if I told you some of the stories where show members have been involved in tormenting me, in front of my children, this isn’t even the worst one) I remember trying to control my voice from shaking when I asked the cops if I could refuse to allow them in, I told them I had been granted “use & possession” of the home & did not have to allow him inside. They couldn’t argue with that and eventually backed down. But not before they leaned on their cars in my driveway, socializing and laughing with him & John, for what felt like forever while I sat inside, trying not to break into tears & consoled my children when they cried over why were the police at out home… again. Sophie started to become afraid of the police, asking me regularly if they were going to come to our home again. I’m telling you this so you understand why I didn’t call the police. Not only have I been told they can do nothing (if you have firsthand knowledge that it’s not correct, please tell me!) but I don’t want to expose my girls to tat situation again unless I absolutely have to. I miss my girls desperately, their baby brother keeps looking for them to walk in the door, but if you give in to a bully it only solidify that it’s going to happen again, and next time it will be worse. One of you advised e to keep writing but to keep some of what I’m doing private so others don’t see my hand, please know I’m doing just that. I’m finally doing something about it. |
Anonymous
| Wow. No holds barred. As much as I'd love to know the full story (even if it is just her side), I have to think any attorney worth her weight will tell Nat to stay off social media. Or at least she'll vet any posts. Maybe a savvy DCUM reader/lawyer will take on her battle! |
Anonymous
| She doesn’t have his kind of money in court, but have can ruin him in other ways (public perception)Why not just adhere to the court decision. Something is wrong with that guy. His radiio show sucks too. Lesson of the story is..don’t marry for money cause he’ll keep it all and use it to make your life miserable. |
Anonymous
| I know no one in this situation (so no need to call me an intern or whatever) but i'm as skeptical of "her" side as I am of his. She's had very erratic and impulsive behavior in the past, has loved to elude to things to gather followers, and seems like she's in general a drama loving person. I'm sure the truth is somewhere in the middle of these two and think it'd be in the best interest of the girls if they both dialed it way back, acted like adults, and kept it off social media |
Anonymous
She isn't still getting alimony. If you remarry, you immediately forfeit your right to alimony |
Anonymous
View it from this perspective. As a public figure, Kane’s main communication platform is through nationally syndicated radio, as he is a radio host. Also a public figure, Natasha a blogger who’s main communication platform is social media, specifically Instagram which is where these posts are originating. You’re saying “Hey, he’s allowed to tell his side of the story because he already did it (even though he shouldn’t have gone on nationally syndicated top ranked FM Radio morning show.) but she shouldn’t share her side because it looks bad...” |
Anonymous
Are you her friend or something? You seem disproportionately committed to defending her. No one is disputing that Kane was a huge douche when he blasted her on the radio the one time he spilled the alleged details of their divorce, but he hasn’t spoken of it since. Natasha has been posting about their divorce ever since she got back on social media. I don’t like the guy, but there is a massive difference. And it’s a huge stretch to compare his career as an actual radio DJ to her hobby as a “blogger”. |
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This is my perspective: I don't think she is as much of a victim as she claims to be, and while I don't doubt that he's a D, I question whether he's as big of one as she claims. I imagine there was probably a reason that he picked the girls up from school on an unscheduled day - maybe it was a miscommunication. I really doubt that he is holding them ransom until she takes down her social media posts. There's just something about her that doesn't sit well with me, and I can't put my finger on it. There's a part of me that thinks that she longs for sympathy and acceptance and will stretch the truth to get it.
I'm not excusing what he did, either, when he went on the radio and blasted her. That was definitely NOT ok. He should not have aired their dirty laundry like that, and she should not be doing it now, either. |
Anonymous
I’m not comparing careers, however those are both valid ways to be considered a public figure. If she had never started LPM and was literally only known as “Kane’s Wife” then I’d agree with the sentiments on her social media posts. But they are both considered public figures, obviously one’s far more well-known than the other, but a following is a following. -don’t know either of them, but believe this ‘keep it off social media narrative’ is total hypocrisy. |
Anonymous
Except they're not both careers. One's a profession with an annual salary and benefits plus residuals from distribution networks. The other is a public diary that she uses to whine. Facts are facts. Her blog is not paying her bills or anyone else's. |
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NP. Well I've probably posted somewhere in some of these Kane show threads before but nothing in a long while and nothing since this recent dust up. I think that his history with female cohosts and intern john's seeming neverending devotion to him make her post here ring true.
I agree that in an ideal world all of this would be kept quiet for the sake of the kids. But I feel like she has done just that for the past three years. I'm a child of an acrimonious divorce and the parent that kept it together in terms of not trash talking the other parent is closer to me and has more of my respect as an adult. But I am also a mother, and if I was being denied court ordered time with my kids on a regular basis and was at a disadvantage both financially and from a public persona/connections with local law enforcement perspective, I can't say I wouldn't try to fight some fire with fire. Normally I would be really opposed to her actions, but as an observer of this thing since the beginning (I was listening to the radio the day he went on his hour long sob fest) and who had been listening to Kane far longer than that (I was super sad when Sarah left after spending what felt like years listening to her cohost), I feel that he is a very manipulative, very egotistical misogynist who seems particularly vindictive against women who stand up or speak up against him. |
Anonymous
You don't know him, only your perception of him. He is as big a douche as she claims, and no I'm not her or related to her in any way. |
Anonymous
You're out of touch and sound hypocritical. Many actually make a decent little amount blogging, even if it's just a side hustle as a SAHM. |