question for the husbands

[Anonymous]

lads, how would you take it if your wife told you she was attracted to one of her girlfriends that she spends a lot of time with? the other woman being married with children as well and very low probability of anything happening. would you feel threatened? amused/intrigued? indifferent?

[Anonymous]

Threesome

[Anonymous]

Titilated and intrigued

[Anonymous]

I would be surprised given her background/feelings especially about extra marital. I would not be threatened even though I know of circumstance that a lesbian tryst ended two marriages. I would not be intrigued. Concerned would be more like it. And I would not be titillated. Perhaps that is because it would be a little bit of a btdt in a three/group and more from concern.

[Anonymous]

I'd be aroused.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Threesome

Yup

[Anonymous]

Did you not have a threesome before you got married? Big mistake. If you had, you would know it would end your marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you not have a threesome before you got married? Big mistake. If you had, you would know it would end your marriage.

Why would it end a marriage?

[Anonymous]

I was in this situation with my ex-wife.

I found a bunch of lesbian porn on the computer, which she denied looking at. It took me finding more and more of it for her to finally admit that she was starting to feel sexually attracted to one of her friends.

She grew up in an abusive house with self-proclaimed religious folks. I considered that perhaps she was gay or bisexual and repressed it out of fear. We were in our twenties, so I gave her a one time hall pass. She could go figure out if that's what she wanted, and I wouldn't ask any questions. If it was something she wanted to keep doing, then we would need to have a new conversation.

I don't know if I felt threatened necessarily. I recognized early into the marriage that she had issues with self esteem and being herself instead of what she thought other people wanted her to be. Her revelation made me consider that maybe this attraction wasn't a new development and perhaps she'd been lying to herself about her sexuality for years. I loved her, so I wanted her to be happy even if it meant she wouldn't be with me anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was in this situation with my ex-wife.

I found a bunch of lesbian porn on the computer, which she denied looking at. It took me finding more and more of it for her to finally admit that she was starting to feel sexually attracted to one of her friends.

She grew up in an abusive house with self-proclaimed religious folks. I considered that perhaps she was gay or bisexual and repressed it out of fear. We were in our twenties, so I gave her a one time hall pass. She could go figure out if that's what she wanted, and I wouldn't ask any questions. If it was something she wanted to keep doing, then we would need to have a new conversation.

I don't know if I felt threatened necessarily. I recognized early into the marriage that she had issues with self esteem and being herself instead of what she thought other people wanted her to be. Her revelation made me consider that maybe this attraction wasn't a new development and perhaps she'd been lying to herself about her sexuality for years. I loved her, so I wanted her to be happy even if it meant she wouldn't be with me anymore.

Hugs

[Anonymous]

I would be super turned on and would absolutely encourage her to explore these feelings.

Also, threesome.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was in this situation with my ex-wife.

I found a bunch of lesbian porn on the computer, which she denied looking at. It took me finding more and more of it for her to finally admit that she was starting to feel sexually attracted to one of her friends.

She grew up in an abusive house with self-proclaimed religious folks. I considered that perhaps she was gay or bisexual and repressed it out of fear. We were in our twenties, so I gave her a one time hall pass. She could go figure out if that's what she wanted, and I wouldn't ask any questions. If it was something she wanted to keep doing, then we would need to have a new conversation.

I don't know if I felt threatened necessarily. I recognized early into the marriage that she had issues with self esteem and being herself instead of what she thought other people wanted her to be. Her revelation made me consider that maybe this attraction wasn't a new development and perhaps she'd been lying to herself about her sexuality for years. I loved her, so I wanted her to be happy even if it meant she wouldn't be with me anymore.

Hugs

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was in this situation with my ex-wife.

I found a bunch of lesbian porn on the computer, which she denied looking at. It took me finding more and more of it for her to finally admit that she was starting to feel sexually attracted to one of her friends.

She grew up in an abusive house with self-proclaimed religious folks. I considered that perhaps she was gay or bisexual and repressed it out of fear. We were in our twenties, so I gave her a one time hall pass. She could go figure out if that's what she wanted, and I wouldn't ask any questions. If it was something she wanted to keep doing, then we would need to have a new conversation.

I don't know if I felt threatened necessarily. I recognized early into the marriage that she had issues with self esteem and being herself instead of what she thought other people wanted her to be. Her revelation made me consider that maybe this attraction wasn't a new development and perhaps she'd been lying to herself about her sexuality for years. I loved her, so I wanted her to be happy even if it meant she wouldn't be with me anymore.

Hugs

The world needs more confident people like you. +1
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[Anonymous]

All of you saying "threesome".... you guys realize that the other woman is also some other dude's wife, right?

Are you up for the asswhipping that will ensue when the husband in question finds out about the 3-way you had with his wife?

Plus, what even makes you think she'd be into you anyway?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you not have a threesome before you got married? Big mistake. If you had, you would know it would end your marriage.

It depends. Can 100% confirm that threesomes have not ended my marriage. Then again, DH and I have the same kinks and get off seeing each other with other people. It's awesome and hot.