My soon to be ex-Dh's girlfriend keeps posting pics of my kids on Facebook. Can I stop it?

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[Post New]07/26/2017 19:41
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Anonymous
I try to limit what I post of my kids on Facebook and I certainly have very tight privacy settings. My not yet exDH is dating someone who is constantly posting pics of my kids on Facebook. I am not friends with her or my ex but yet there are my kids--for the world to see.
Any attempts to nicely ask for her to stop will likely be viewed negatively. Is there anything I can do about this legally? Can I have someonething about this put in our separation agreement or am I just out of luck?
[Post New]07/26/2017 19:42
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Anonymous
Can you report the pictures to facebook?
[Post New]07/26/2017 19:44
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Anonymous
Does/did your ex generally share your views on this, or not?
[Post New]07/26/2017 19:46
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Does/did your ex generally share your views on this, or not?


My ex is so unreasonable that whether he shares my view or not, he will view any request to stop this as just me trying to control him/his girlfriend.
[Post New]07/26/2017 19:46
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Anonymous
You can ask nicely, and that's probably it. You could ask to put it in your divorce agreement, but that agreement only binds you and your DH - no 3rd parties. So you can't use that as an instrument to require specific actions of dhs new woman.
[Post New]07/26/2017 20:06
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Anonymous
No
[Post New]07/26/2017 20:06
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Anonymous
I'm aware of a divorce in which one side asked for, and got, very strict and specific rules about the other spouse's social media use, extending to related third parties. Nothing about the kids online, ever.
[Post New]07/26/2017 20:16
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Anonymous
Poor taste esp since the divorce isn't official! It seems really odd for his GF to post pics.
[Post New]07/26/2017 20:20
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Anonymous
Is this really a battle you want to take on? I get you are upset she is posting pics of her boyfriends kids but she may have his permission to do so. Similar to if you shared pics of your kids with your mom and she posted them on Facebook with your permission...your ex wouldn't have much say.

Unless the pics are inappropriate, I don't think you have much ground to stand on without making a big deal out of this. Your ex may not share your views on posting pics of his kids to social media.
[Post New]07/26/2017 20:34
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Anonymous
You should ask your lawyer. Privacy is taken seriously by the court.
[Post New]07/26/2017 20:52
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Anonymous
Go on Facebook and there is a way to tag saying this person does not have permission to post pictures of your kids.
[Post New]07/26/2017 21:06
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm aware of a divorce in which one side asked for, and got, very strict and specific rules about the other spouse's social media use, extending to related third parties. Nothing about the kids online, ever.

Yes! Talk to your attorney.
[Post New]07/26/2017 21:32
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You should ask your lawyer. Privacy is taken seriously by the court.


Yeah this would upset me too.
[Post New]07/27/2017 08:21
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm aware of a divorce in which one side asked for, and got, very strict and specific rules about the other spouse's social media use, extending to related third parties. Nothing about the kids online, ever.


Sorry, that part is entirely unenforceable.
[Post New]07/27/2017 08:27
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm aware of a divorce in which one side asked for, and got, very strict and specific rules about the other spouse's social media use, extending to related third parties. Nothing about the kids online, ever.


Sorry, that part is entirely unenforceable.


Legally and practicably unenforceable.
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