Lost weight, not attracted to husband anymore

[Anonymous]

I was overweight for a long time. My husband kid of was as well but lost a lot very quickly. He looks good. It took me longer but I lost a tong of weight, started working out a lot and have really embraced eating and being healthy. For the first time in my life, I am getting a lot of attention from other men. It's nice, I like the feeling and I feel sexy now. My husband is definitely more attracted to me and is constantly initiating sex. Issue is I turn him down a lot, because I'm not attracted to him anymore. He was ok when I was overweight but not fawning over me like now. I appreciate his desire, but I kind of want to play the field now I have all this attention. I never really had it before and I want the experience

[Anonymous]

Do you hav children? Are you otherwise happy in your marriage?

[Anonymous]

Bitch alerts

[Anonymous]

It's not about the weight. No matter how hot I looked or how many other men fawned over me, I'd never want anyone but my husband.

My ex husband, however, was a different story. I had a similar situation to yours except he never lost weight. But if I was honest, I wanted someone other than him regardless of what weight we were at.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was overweight for a long time. My husband kid of was as well but lost a lot very quickly. He looks good. It took me longer but I lost a tong of weight, started working out a lot and have really embraced eating and being healthy. For the first time in my life, I am getting a lot of attention from other men. It's nice, I like the feeling and I feel sexy now. My husband is definitely more attracted to me and is constantly initiating sex. Issue is I turn him down a lot, because I'm not attracted to him anymore. He was ok when I was overweight but not fawning over me like now. I appreciate his desire, but I kind of want to play the field now I have all this attention. I never really had it before and I want the experience

Troll grade D-.

[Anonymous]

You lose weight, other options become available so you want to branch swing....typical.

I've seen this happen for other reasons, like women gets a new job and meets powerful men. She has an affair and then she's gone.

Your case is particularly superficial though...

[Anonymous]

Troll for sure.

But now you know how successful married men feel. We get a massive surge in female interest in our 30s and 40s when we start making money. Can we play the field too?

[Anonymous]

I've seen stuff like this happen, not as much as for weight but as in she met someone at work. Usually a boss or some higher up.

This is a new low

[Anonymous]

should have played the feminist card a bit more op
lesson for next time

[Anonymous]

Assuming this is real, you are lucky your husband ever wanted to have anything to do with you, given your shallow nature. If you are offended by him being more attracted to you now that you've lost weight, well, those other men were paying you NO attention then. Go ahead and jump ship. I'm sure you'll end up with someone equally shallow- a much better fit.

[Anonymous]

Have him pay for a boob job, then cut him loose and go live it up.

[Anonymous]

If it's a whole new you read some sex manuals and treat your husband like a stranger.

[Anonymous]

OP, what were your marriage vows?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was overweight for a long time. My husband kid of was as well but lost a lot very quickly. He looks good. It took me longer but I lost a tong of weight, started working out a lot and have really embraced eating and being healthy. For the first time in my life, I am getting a lot of attention from other men. It's nice, I like the feeling and I feel sexy now. My husband is definitely more attracted to me and is constantly initiating sex. Issue is I turn him down a lot, because I'm not attracted to him anymore. He was ok when I was overweight but not fawning over me like now. I appreciate his desire, but I kind of want to play the field now I have all this attention. I never really had it before and I want the experience

You suck at the troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was overweight for a long time. My husband kid of was as well but lost a lot very quickly. He looks good. It took me longer but I lost a tong of weight, started working out a lot and have really embraced eating and being healthy. For the first time in my life, I am getting a lot of attention from other men. It's nice, I like the feeling and I feel sexy now. My husband is definitely more attracted to me and is constantly initiating sex. Issue is I turn him down a lot, because I'm not attracted to him anymore. He was ok when I was overweight but not fawning over me like now. I appreciate his desire, but I kind of want to play the field now I have all this attention. I never really had it before and I want the experience

It happens. I was overweight for a long time and dated someone during that time. When I lost weight, I was more able and willing to admit that I was with him because he was someone to be with who liked me. Once I had lost weight and got more interest from other men, I didn't feel so stuck with him anymore and yes, I moved on. Difference of course is I was not married to him.