Fling with Ex
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Anonymous
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Agree or disagree -- or qualify: Settle my friend's and my debate:
Sex with an ex isn't cheating per se, or is somehow different than with a relative stranger/new acquaintance. |
Anonymous
| It's definitely cheating when in a relationship |
Anonymous
| I think it's worse for the person being cheated on. I'd definitely break up with someone for a fling with an ex. Less sure if I'd do it for a true one night stand. Ymmv. |
Anonymous
| It is different, it’s worse. |
Anonymous
| It's absolutely cheating in my book and probably the worst kind of cheating. |
Anonymous
| It's different from sex with a stranger. It's way more serious because of accessibility and history. If kids are involved it's pretty heavy for them. If either person is in a new relationship, it's definitely cheating, unless there's some kind of hall pass or understanding. |
Anonymous
| If I was going to give one my hall pass would not extend to an ex. |
Anonymous
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If I have an agreement to be sexually monogamous with my partner, then any sexual contact with someone other than my partner is cheating.
What kind of loophole are you trying to create? |
Anonymous
Exactly! |
Anonymous
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Yes, it is cheating.
Of course it is different than with a stranger, because to cheat with an ex there are already feelings there. |
Anonymous
| If I had sex with my ex the wife would be pissed but would not feel threatened. If with a stranger or acquaintance she would be pissed and threatened. |
Anonymous
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If said person is in an exclusive relationship with another person then yes it is cheating.
It's the actual act...Not the person involved in the act. |
Anonymous
| Not cheating. Not worse. Ignore anyone who says otherwise. |
Anonymous
| Free refills. |
Anonymous
| Your current partner knows you already been naked with that person and is fine with that knowledge. So, doing it again isn't really a big deal. |