Jen Hatmaker
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Anonymous
| Love not live. |
Anonymous
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Every time Bid Sis sees a Magnolia Magazine at the local grocery store I bet her Enneagram 3 psycho jealousy and competitiveness markers goes through the roof.
Joanna is everything Jen isn’t but Jen secretly thinks she deserves what Joanna has and it drives her batty. |
Anonymous
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What's Jen's plan moving forward? Any book deals? TV deals? Speaking tours?
It just seems like it's the sad cruise and the 24/7 product code nonsense these days. |
Anonymous
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My money is on her collaborating on a book with Tyler.
Or, once Remy has graduated, an empty nest manifesto. Another cookbook is not implausible. She already knows the format and what to do. I am sure she has a lot more to share in that area. |
Anonymous
Yes to all of this. I am a newly divorced woman and don’t relate to her at all. Obviously she doesn’t owe anyone all of her private details, but at the same time she’s an influencer selling her life and it’s a missed opportunity to connect with a very large audience of women who are in the same situation. There’s a balance she could’ve found there. I’d love to find love again one day, but I’m also totally uninspired by this whirlwind “romance.” I like her cookbook but she rarely promotes it, which is odd since it’s the biggest thing she’s done this year and offers tons of content opportunities. Instead she’s shilling CBD and cheap jewelry. |
Anonymous
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Big manic desperation energy in her recent Able shill post. Those eyes, those gestures.
Girl, you need a MeCamp off the socials. |
Anonymous
| There seems to be a lot of available spots for Jen’s grifty cruise. Like a lot. |
Anonymous
Manic? Not even close. But I would not be surprised if she was coping with drugs or things that can mess with your mind and body to make her act so strangely. Actually, a lot of people are posting about how publicly critical Tyler is of Jen (and questioning how he acts in private). Their dynamic may be contributing to Jen’s body of crisis lately. He breaks down her confidence, she clings to him as her savior, he tosses her a few crumbs of encouragement and then the critiques begin again. Jen is not used to being the “weak” one. As the oldest and prettiest child, she was always a confident leader. After the marriage to Brandon broke down, she latched onto Tyler almost immediately after first meeting. She probably thought that due to her relative star power, she could control him and sell whatever narrative she wanted. Yet, the outwardly strongest people can be blind to partner abuse. She may ignore the warning signs and red flags because her ego won’t allow her to accept that this guy, who barely had much of a career before her, could have disdain for her and could be hurting her. Her brain may be unable to cope with the dissonance and short-circuits. So she says all the “right” things to try and convince herself and her audiences that this is a modern day fairy tale. |
Anonymous
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A lot of Big Sass’ belittling is driven by his massive insecurity. Jen is way more successful than he is and it bothers him. His effort at a book club looks to be an epic disaster where Big Sis has a successful book club already. So he passive aggressively acts out like a jerk.
Of course this is all easily evident to all of us but Big Sis is incapable of real self-reflection, only performative grandstanding, so she continues on with the sad charade. |
Anonymous
| I think Brandon’s problems were much bigger than anything that’s been disclosed. Jen was blindsided by something major. When you jump into a new relationship after something like that and before you’ve healed enough, it can be bad news. |
Anonymous
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They know. They all know.
Their victimhood narrative demands that they have to be 100% shocked at what happened. Even though they all knew something was seriously rotten and broken in their relationships and also they had a hand in what happened themselves. But it doesn’t really feed their sense of victimhood and narcissism to speak the truth in these matters. |
Anonymous
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I wouldn’t be surprised if many influencers abuse hard drugs while giving the public the live your best life talks and social media packaging. Look at Dave Hollis, did anyone really think his autopsy would show that cocktail of hard drugs?? While he put on a front that truly was Oscar worthy.
I bet there is more of this than we realize, Dave’s death is just a crack in the iceberg |
Anonymous
These are ALL deeply broken people with huge glaring personality disorders. And deep down they all know that they aren’t the heroes and all-knowing, hyper successful gurus they sell themselves as. That they are phonies and frauds and therefor they self medicate and heavily drink and pop pills and chase highs to dull the pain and sadness and emptiness inside. They use and abuse to escape demons. The social media influencer self-help “industry” is wall to wall with deeply broken chronic alcohol and drug abusers. These aren’t healthy people. Physically. Spiritually. Or emotionally. They are in fact the people least capable of telling others how to live. |
Anonymous
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Most adults in America period cope with alcohol or drugs (weed, coke, psychedelics, ketamine, etc.). Very few holistically healthy adults exist. And then the position corrupts. You cannot remain healthy by putting on an act nearly every day for the world to cruelly attack. No amount of positive praise can completely drown out the scathing critiques that all influencers deal with.
Some celebrities can cope by ignoring the public outside of work but for influencers, your whole life is work. |
Anonymous
| The cause of Dave’s death proves these people are all frauds. I mean, he was selling health workshops and taking peoples’ money and buying hardcore drugs. WTF. How do you live with yourself when you’re that kind of a human? |