Married, but enamored of another man
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Anonymous
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I am unhappily married to my DH. Several weeks ago I did something I don't ever do and that's let another man talk and flirt with me, and I flirted back. It was brief, an hour, at an event, then we parted ways, and that was it. I just can't get him out of my mind. Superficially, he was just everything I could want. If I ran into him again, I would probably have an affair if he wanted to.
****siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh***** Oh well....No question, no advice needed, just a confession.... |
Anonymous
Just another reason for men to never get married. |
Anonymous
| Why don't you get a divorce instead of making decisions about your DH's life behind his back, risking his health and causing untold pain to your children? |
Anonymous
| Op, you are immature |
Anonymous
| People are nicer on the confession thread, OP. Try working on the marriage. Fantasies are awesome. Also, I think flirting is good for maintaining libido. Hugs. |
Anonymous
| Your dh could make the same amazing yet superficial impression when he's all dressed up and at an event on his own. Fantasy, okay. Anything more, ridiculous. |
Anonymous
You are asking for it. You want it. And you will regret it. Do the right thing and stay the hell away from him before you ruin everything. |
Anonymous
HA! No he couldn't....and it wasn't a formal or dressy event, either. |
Anonymous
| I'll have to remember to link to this post every time DCUM harpies shriek that men only think with their dicks. |
Anonymous
| Well, only men can think with their ducks, technically. |
Anonymous
| Lovely. Enjoy the feeling but you need to do some work on you and your marriage .... |
Anonymous
It wasn't all about the physical appearance, it was the person he was and how he treated me...as in, I EXISTED to him and he was INTERESTED in me. It was nice for a man to be interested in me, even if just for an hour. |
Anonymous
Go ahead and spread 'em but not until you tell your DH you want out. Show some level of honesty before you cheat. |
Anonymous
| Guaranteed this guy is not worth the fallout and surely is not much better. When the current spouse finds out about an affair you can bet the court filings will be ugly. Not to mention fights over the kids for years to come. Better think again OP. |
Anonymous
| My god, you people are really jumping the gun here. Get a grip. It was a fleeting flirtation in passing. |