Married, but enamored of another man

[Anonymous]

No ^ +1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People are nicer on the confession thread, OP. Try working on the marriage. Fantasies are awesome. Also, I think flirting is good for maintaining libido. Hugs.

+2 Crushes are normal. Ignore these sanctimonious shrews.

[Anonymous]

I thought it was enamored *by* another man....but, turns out you're right. Does anyone else thing that "enamored of" sounds odd?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are nicer on the confession thread, OP. Try working on the marriage. Fantasies are awesome. Also, I think flirting is good for maintaining libido. Hugs.

+2 Crushes are normal. Ignore these sanctimonious shrews.

She's saying she will have an affair with him if she sees him again and he's willing. She's premeditating acts that will affect and hurt people she signed up to care about. If saying that's wrong is sanctimonious, sign me up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am unhappily married to my DH. Several weeks ago I did something I don't ever do and that's let another man talk and flirt with me, and I flirted back. It was brief, an hour, at an event, then we parted ways, and that was it. I just can't get him out of my mind. Superficially, he was just everything I could want. If I ran into him again, I would probably have an affair if he wanted to.
****siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh*****
Oh well....No question, no advice needed, just a confession....

Just another reason for men to never get married.

No one wants you. Back to Reddit, gunty red-piller.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are nicer on the confession thread, OP. Try working on the marriage. Fantasies are awesome. Also, I think flirting is good for maintaining libido. Hugs.

+2 Crushes are normal. Ignore these sanctimonious shrews.

She's saying she will have an affair with him if she sees him again and he's willing. She's premeditating acts that will affect and hurt people she signed up to care about. If saying that's wrong is sanctimonious, sign me up.

YEP. It is SANCTIMONIOUS, and there was no "premeditating acts," omg....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am unhappily married to my DH. Several weeks ago I did something I don't ever do and that's let another man talk and flirt with me, and I flirted back. It was brief, an hour, at an event, then we parted ways, and that was it. I just can't get him out of my mind. Superficially, he was just everything I could want. If I ran into him again, I would probably have an affair if he wanted to.
****siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh*****
Oh well....No question, no advice needed, just a confession....

Enjoy the flirtation and use the energy to light up your sex life. Don't ever contemplate transitioning this into real life because in real life, no one is "everything I could want." No person is that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are nicer on the confession thread, OP. Try working on the marriage. Fantasies are awesome. Also, I think flirting is good for maintaining libido. Hugs.

+2 Crushes are normal. Ignore these sanctimonious shrews.

She's saying she will have an affair with him if she sees him again and he's willing. She's premeditating acts that will affect and hurt people she signed up to care about. If saying that's wrong is sanctimonious, sign me up.

YEP. It is SANCTIMONIOUS, and there was no "premeditating acts," omg....

I don't? think think that word means what you think it means.

[Anonymous]

Lol. If he was interested, he would have pursued it then. You were flirting back. Any guy that's going to act isn't going to let that go if he's interested. This will remain a fantasy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are nicer on the confession thread, OP. Try working on the marriage. Fantasies are awesome. Also, I think flirting is good for maintaining libido. Hugs.

+2 Crushes are normal. Ignore these sanctimonious shrews.

She's saying she will have an affair with him if she sees him again and he's willing. She's premeditating acts that will affect and hurt people she signed up to care about. If saying that's wrong is sanctimonious, sign me up.

YEP. It is SANCTIMONIOUS, and there was no "premeditating acts," omg....

I don't? think think that word means what you think it means.

It was used correctly (as if it really matters)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lol. If he was interested, he would have pursued it then. You were flirting back. Any guy that's going to act isn't going to let that go if he's interested. This will remain a fantasy.

You assholes can't even let a person have a FANTASY without shitting on it.

[Anonymous]

Fantasies are normal. I just got back from business travel. Hit it off with the girl at the airport bar, while on layover for a couple hours. And with the girl in the middle seat. Both married, but was fun, flirty and harmless conversations.

How boring life must be if you never feel attraction and fleeting chemistry with someone except your spouse.

OP, you are normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Fantasies are normal. I just got back from business travel. Hit it off with the girl at the airport bar, while on layover for a couple hours. And with the girl in the middle seat. Both married, but was fun, flirty and harmless conversations.

How boring life must be if you never feel attraction and fleeting chemistry with someone except your spouse.

OP, you are normal.

If you see either woman again you will not try to sleep with them. You are not in the same situation as OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lovely. Enjoy the feeling but you need to do some work on you and your marriage ....

+a bazillion

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People are nicer on the confession thread, OP. Try working on the marriage. Fantasies are awesome. Also, I think flirting is good for maintaining libido. Hugs.

+2 Crushes are normal. Ignore these sanctimonious shrews.

She's saying she will have an affair with him if she sees him again and he's willing. She's premeditating acts that will affect and hurt people she signed up to care about. If saying that's wrong is sanctimonious, sign me up.

It was clear, she'd have an affair if he took it further. The last thing she needs is to hook up with another loser. She needs to figure out what she is going to do and get her priorities in order. Either get out or get counseling.
OP maybe you need to be alone for awhile. Another man isn't the answer.