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Maybe this is bad parenting but when daughter was on "B" squad, I told her anytime you join training with "A" squad girls and there is a challenge you knock them on there butt. She did it with a smile. can't Coach aggression at a young age, but can eventually control it. |
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"RAE creeps in deep along a players journey and when ppl say, don't worry, it goes away when they are older....its way too late by then."
Spot on! |
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It helps if you've coached or managed human beings. Children especially. They are sponges picking up on tiny signals telling them who they are and what they're worth.
My daughter is a Q4 kid that believes she's amazing. She's an incredible athlete that is far faster and stronger than 2013's but average for 2012's because she's a year behind her peers. Keeping her motivated and loving soccer has been intentional and difficult at times. Let's just accept RAE and find ways to mitigate it the best we can along a childs journey. We'll keep more kids playing that way and develop a stronger soccer culture in the US, which the the goal we all have. |
Excellent post and mirrors what I've seen for my daughter as well. The inclement weather training/cancellations hit particularly close to home for us. |
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The RAE deciples realize that going from BY to SY doesn't change anything. Correct?
All you're doing is shifting those most affected from December birthdays to July birthdays. The exact same amount of players are affected. Using RAE to justify SY is laughable and disingenuous. |
| RAE and trapped players are real. Only one can be fixed. |
My kid is a Sept g2010 who starts and has played on the top team since she was 5. While I acknowledge that some kids are going to be bigger because they were born in Jan. By the time they're u14 things even out. Also my daughter also has played high level futsal since age 6, does strength training, when younger guested for all kinds of different teams, and occasionally does private lessons. There's a reason she's on the top 2010 starting as a "trapped" player. Sometimes I feel the RAE patents need to give it a rest. Either get better or move onto a different sport. Things don't get easier as they get older and after u14 nobody cares about RAE anymore. |
You get a cookie. |
Best quote so far |
The same could be said for the justification of changing to BY. As a matter of fact they admit it won't solve it but it will help them to better "understand". |
RAE can easily be fixed. Leagues just need to give players born in the 2nd half of the eligibility window the option to play down. Then when they hit u13 or u14 take the playing down option away. |
OMG, so I guess the reason 70% of D1 recruits are born Jan-June is because Q4 kids just aren't trying hard enough or didn't have the talent your kid has. That's not smug or elitist at all. RAE is very real. Its heavily affects kids and causes them to drop out of the sport. Lets all just admit it and move on. Then we can start thinking through ways to help kids on the lower end of the band. Get better or move to another sport, lol. What a pompous blowhard. As your daughter does private coaching (money), training (money), tons of club teams (money, money, money). Your kid is privileged, we get it. The rest of us peasants will pull ourselves up by our bootstraps and go find a new sport I guess. |
You mean, as has been stated in 400 pages of this thread?? Can you read? Yes, everyone is aware going to SY changes nothing with RAE but it solves for a bunch of other issues....hence its better and wanted by the majority of stakeholders. Not one person here is using RAE as a reason to move to SY, your comprehension is near zero, get that checked. |
If RAE doesn't change with BY or SY why do people keep bringing it up on a thread about BY and SY.? |
Clubs could also treat B teams with predominantly younger players as equal with the quality of coaches and opportunity. But they don't. |