How to raise this without offending
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Anonymous
| Tomorrow, being March 14th, is of course the male version of Valentine's day aka steak and BJ day. I think DW is unaware of the existence of this new holiday (or at least she's not letting on that she knows). How do I raise the issue subtly without seeming needy and begging for it? |
Anonymous
| Apparently I missed a memo somewhere ... |
Anonymous
Tomorrow, 3.14, is Pi Day. Nothing more, nothing less. 
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Anonymous
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Just tell her what you want
Why be subtle about it? |
Anonymous
| lol I never knew! But it is true. I mean it depends on her personality. Does she have a sense of humor? |
Anonymous
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If its offensive to ask for steak and a bj my hubby must be the most offensive man ever. Did he you make up this holiday honey?
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Anonymous
| Haha DH and I "celebrate" this every year. It started off as a joke when we started dating and now it's just a weird tradition we have. But we also have a weird sense of humor so I would never find it offensive |
Anonymous
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I wish I could take credit and claim royalties:
http://www.google.com/search?sclient=tablet-gws&client=safari&hl=en&btnG=Search&q=march+14th |
Anonymous
It's not to late but you might want to buy that steak now because......snow. |
Anonymous
Should have married a chick like me. DH gets both on the regular. |
ZachF
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Are you asking us how to ask your W for a BJ? Who cares what day it is. If you want it, ask. Jeez
I can cook my own steak, and rarely have to ask for a BJ. But if I want one, I won't hesitate to ask. Likewise, she makes it clear what she wants. That's how a relationship is supposed to work. |
Anonymous
| I've never heard of this "holiday" and maybe your wife hasn't either. Why is saying "It would be fun to do this" begging? You are making a production out of nothing. |
Anonymous
| It's not even Pie Day. It's Pi Day. For people too stupid to recognize the difference, it means everyone eats piE. Pi is beautiful and should be appreciated on its own merits, not the closeness of its name to a dessert. |
Anonymous
| You sound exhausting op |
Anonymous
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The only way I'm getting a steak tomorrow is if I grill it myself. The only way I'm getting a BJ this year is a prostitute.
For some jobs you need to do it yourself for others it's time to call a pro. |