I honestly don’t think the top tier value these students. A SLAC (especially a mid tier slac) or the honors college at a public flagship is more likely to appreciate such a student. Their Professors will definitely appreciate them! |
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| Haven’t read all the responses but my take on the interest in “leadership” is that it’s really more about initiative, does the student show that they can start or do things on their own? As the president of a club, can they come up with ideas or activities that others will engage in? As a team captain, can they demonstrate through their own excellence or apply their personality to motivate others? As an employee, did they seek out and apply for a job? Do they show up every day and demonstrate a work ethic to something in addition to school? I think there are a lot of ways to demonstrate leadership and that it’s a valid question. All of that said, I do believe some kids haven’t had as many opportunities to shine or are late bloomers. But I do think most kids and adults are able to find some way to demonstrate leadership as it relates to their interests and passions and I understand why schools look for this. |
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| I agree. Determination, hard work, creativity, service, teamwork, and kindness are all important. Yet the focus is always on leadership. |
Academics are largely supported by government research grants, not rich donors or endowment. That's why many public universities have world-renowned academics despite generally being cash-strapped. |
Agree. Probably rushes home to accommodate students who reschedule meetings at the last minute / a different thread |
That is my D. She got into an honors college this year and her activities were pretty bogus, just a volunteering job and an instrument neither of which were impressive. She has almost a perfect GPA in a tough program and had a 1400 SAT score. |
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The Air Force has a great line for folks like this: followership.
In fact you actually can’t really be a great leader - besides perhaps an entrepreneur - without first mastering good followership, particularly in large orgs. There should be more scholarship on this subject. https://www.afcent.af.mil/Units/386th-Air-Expeditionary-Wing/Commentaries/Display/Article/572434/5-rules-for-effective-followership/ Maybe consider USAFA? Write a killer essay on your good followership? |
Agree they need some rah-rah types to make the college run. The guy in my college who was president of everything student government, etc, has been the mayor of a large US city for several years now. |
+1 Personally, I think any institution works best if it has a mix of leaders and facilitators and followers. (My kid is definitely the facilitator -- she's never out in front, but she brings people together and connects them. She's a highly cooperative kid who gets along with almost everyone.) But that's not actually what elite schools care about. They want to know if you are going to increase their prestige and/or donate lots of money. |
Yeah, that's not a leader, or a "leader," that's a jerk. There have always been jerks and there will always be jerks, people who think more of themselves than they should. My kid hates being involved in any kind of club but he is a natural leader and it will come out in all of his recommendations. He has lots of ideas and people like to follow him. He often gets some crazy notion about a special project and the other kids in the class and even the teacher get excited about it and they all end up working on it (he figures out ways to involve everyone, delegates assignments, and ends up basically a project manager) even though it was just some thing he thought was cool. His resume is thin but I'm confident that his teacher recs will tell the admissions people that he is the real deal. |
OP, just because you have an issue with extroverts, doesn't mean that everyone else should. |
| I think this is another example of how kids from disadvantaged backgrounds get screwed. They often don’t have the bandwidth because of home situations or are working because they actually need the money with no extra time to start clubs and non-profits. |
It’s expensive to outsource the creation of a website for your fake club |