Men - what’s something you’d like your partner to do?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:for my DW to wear lingerie more than 1x per year, and leave the lights on so I can actually enjoy the visual of her how unbelievably hot and sexy she looks (and is). and yes, I've told her this (the compliment) repeatedly over the years and after 3 kids.

Lingerie feels so silly. Does your wife even feel sexy in it? It’s not going to have the effect that you’d like. I imagine you’d like her to wear it and feel good in it. If she doesn’t like it and doesn’t think she looks good in it (lights off), even if she puts it on isn’t not like she will strut around the room in it. My DH asks for this sometimes too - but with more of a dance/-act with it. I don’t do it, because I feel ridiculous. I’m not a stripper for a reason. It feels so humiliating to me.

she has 2 drawers full of different lingerie that mostly she has bought herself over 23+ years together. she packs it when we go on vacation too.

She wears it for her AP once you leave the house for work.

I know you're trying to be funny, but no, she's not cheating

Dead serious. Ask my ex wife about it.

very sorry about that, truly.

[Anonymous]

Ladies, call your mans bluff on his fantasy, I did and it has lead to an exciting bedroom.

DH always commented on how hot it would be for us to vacation at a resort with a topless beach.

Surprised hubby with a vacation to Desire Pearl in Mexico. It wasn’t just a resort with a topless beach, his fantasy vacation. It was a full on clothing optional resort. I shopped for sexy bikini’s and club wear to wear around the resort. DH saw what I had purchased and was eager to see me wearing these outfits. What DH didn’t realize is that his DW had her own fantasies. Purchased a few outfits for DH, parts included a collar, leash and a leather brief amongst other accessories.

Arrived at the resort, DH and I head to pool wearing a g-string bikini. I shed my top and husbands eyes jumped from his head, he’s surrounded by women many naked as well as men. I whispered in his ear, this is the vacation you wanted right?
DH was at a loss for words. I fetched us drinks from the bar as DH took it all in. DH was a good sport, he said he never imagined such a place existed. Took DH a day before he bared his pasty white ass.

Theme night dinner a few days later, BDSM night. I pulled out the collar, leash and leather brief. DH said he’d help me with the collar. Silly man, the collar is for you as is the brief. DH you’re my bitch tonight was my reply. DH was shell shocked but aroused. First time in our 10yr marriage that I was in charge. DH loved it, and walked proudly to dinner on a leash with DW dressed in a black latex bodysuit and boots.

DH fantasy turned reality vacation has transformed our bedroom from mediocre to full blown exciting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, call your mans bluff on his fantasy, I did and it has lead to an exciting bedroom.

DH always commented on how hot it would be for us to vacation at a resort with a topless beach.

Surprised hubby with a vacation to Desire Pearl in Mexico. It wasn’t just a resort with a topless beach, his fantasy vacation. It was a full on clothing optional resort. I shopped for sexy bikini’s and club wear to wear around the resort. DH saw what I had purchased and was eager to see me wearing these outfits. What DH didn’t realize is that his DW had her own fantasies. Purchased a few outfits for DH, parts included a collar, leash and a leather brief amongst other accessories.

Arrived at the resort, DH and I head to pool wearing a g-string bikini. I shed my top and husbands eyes jumped from his head, he’s surrounded by women many naked as well as men. I whispered in his ear, this is the vacation you wanted right?
DH was at a loss for words. I fetched us drinks from the bar as DH took it all in. DH was a good sport, he said he never imagined such a place existed. Took DH a day before he bared his pasty white ass.

Theme night dinner a few days later, BDSM night. I pulled out the collar, leash and leather brief. DH said he’d help me with the collar. Silly man, the collar is for you as is the brief. DH you’re my bitch tonight was my reply. DH was shell shocked but aroused. First time in our 10yr marriage that I was in charge. DH loved it, and walked proudly to dinner on a leash with DW dressed in a black latex bodysuit and boots.

DH fantasy turned reality vacation has transformed our bedroom from mediocre to full blown exciting.

That sounds terrible. Who wants to walk around half naked in front of a strangers? And only a fraction of a percentage of middle aged women look good in a g-string. Honestly, it sounds like a nightmare. Do women actually like this? This sounds like some perverts fantasy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, call your mans bluff on his fantasy, I did and it has lead to an exciting bedroom.

DH always commented on how hot it would be for us to vacation at a resort with a topless beach.

Surprised hubby with a vacation to Desire Pearl in Mexico. It wasn’t just a resort with a topless beach, his fantasy vacation. It was a full on clothing optional resort. I shopped for sexy bikini’s and club wear to wear around the resort. DH saw what I had purchased and was eager to see me wearing these outfits. What DH didn’t realize is that his DW had her own fantasies. Purchased a few outfits for DH, parts included a collar, leash and a leather brief amongst other accessories.

Arrived at the resort, DH and I head to pool wearing a g-string bikini. I shed my top and husbands eyes jumped from his head, he’s surrounded by women many naked as well as men. I whispered in his ear, this is the vacation you wanted right?
DH was at a loss for words. I fetched us drinks from the bar as DH took it all in. DH was a good sport, he said he never imagined such a place existed. Took DH a day before he bared his pasty white ass.

Theme night dinner a few days later, BDSM night. I pulled out the collar, leash and leather brief. DH said he’d help me with the collar. Silly man, the collar is for you as is the brief. DH you’re my bitch tonight was my reply. DH was shell shocked but aroused. First time in our 10yr marriage that I was in charge. DH loved it, and walked proudly to dinner on a leash with DW dressed in a black latex bodysuit and boots.

DH fantasy turned reality vacation has transformed our bedroom from mediocre to full blown exciting.

That sounds terrible. Who wants to walk around half naked in front of a strangers? And only a fraction of a percentage of middle aged women look good in a g-string. Honestly, it sounds like a nightmare. Do women actually like this? This sounds like some perverts fantasy.

Not PP but I have no problem being nude around others. We usually go to topless beaches in Europe, NC and FL.

[Anonymous]

Wait--this is a newish boyfriend? ROTFLMAO. It's so easy then. Wait til you have a real life with this person and come back. This is the part that can't go wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, call your mans bluff on his fantasy, I did and it has lead to an exciting bedroom.

DH always commented on how hot it would be for us to vacation at a resort with a topless beach.

Surprised hubby with a vacation to Desire Pearl in Mexico. It wasn’t just a resort with a topless beach, his fantasy vacation. It was a full on clothing optional resort. I shopped for sexy bikini’s and club wear to wear around the resort. DH saw what I had purchased and was eager to see me wearing these outfits. What DH didn’t realize is that his DW had her own fantasies. Purchased a few outfits for DH, parts included a collar, leash and a leather brief amongst other accessories.

Arrived at the resort, DH and I head to pool wearing a g-string bikini. I shed my top and husbands eyes jumped from his head, he’s surrounded by women many naked as well as men. I whispered in his ear, this is the vacation you wanted right?
DH was at a loss for words. I fetched us drinks from the bar as DH took it all in. DH was a good sport, he said he never imagined such a place existed. Took DH a day before he bared his pasty white ass.

Theme night dinner a few days later, BDSM night. I pulled out the collar, leash and leather brief. DH said he’d help me with the collar. Silly man, the collar is for you as is the brief. DH you’re my bitch tonight was my reply. DH was shell shocked but aroused. First time in our 10yr marriage that I was in charge. DH loved it, and walked proudly to dinner on a leash with DW dressed in a black latex bodysuit and boots.

DH fantasy turned reality vacation has transformed our bedroom from mediocre to full blown exciting.

That sounds terrible. Who wants to walk around half naked in front of a strangers? And only a fraction of a percentage of middle aged women look good in a g-string. Honestly, it sounds like a nightmare. Do women actually like this? This sounds like some perverts fantasy.

Nap: Oh stop your pearl-clutching and stow the bitchiness. Your reply was super judgmental (in a bad way).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, call your mans bluff on his fantasy, I did and it has lead to an exciting bedroom.

DH always commented on how hot it would be for us to vacation at a resort with a topless beach.

Surprised hubby with a vacation to Desire Pearl in Mexico. It wasn’t just a resort with a topless beach, his fantasy vacation. It was a full on clothing optional resort. I shopped for sexy bikini’s and club wear to wear around the resort. DH saw what I had purchased and was eager to see me wearing these outfits. What DH didn’t realize is that his DW had her own fantasies. Purchased a few outfits for DH, parts included a collar, leash and a leather brief amongst other accessories.

Arrived at the resort, DH and I head to pool wearing a g-string bikini. I shed my top and husbands eyes jumped from his head, he’s surrounded by women many naked as well as men. I whispered in his ear, this is the vacation you wanted right?
DH was at a loss for words. I fetched us drinks from the bar as DH took it all in. DH was a good sport, he said he never imagined such a place existed. Took DH a day before he bared his pasty white ass.

Theme night dinner a few days later, BDSM night. I pulled out the collar, leash and leather brief. DH said he’d help me with the collar. Silly man, the collar is for you as is the brief. DH you’re my bitch tonight was my reply. DH was shell shocked but aroused. First time in our 10yr marriage that I was in charge. DH loved it, and walked proudly to dinner on a leash with DW dressed in a black latex bodysuit and boots.

DH fantasy turned reality vacation has transformed our bedroom from mediocre to full blown exciting.

That sounds terrible. Who wants to walk around half naked in front of a strangers? And only a fraction of a percentage of middle aged women look good in a g-string. Honestly, it sounds like a nightmare. Do women actually like this? This sounds like some perverts fantasy.

These places continue to do business because lots of people like them. Not like it is cheap to run a large international resort.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, call your mans bluff on his fantasy, I did and it has lead to an exciting bedroom.

DH always commented on how hot it would be for us to vacation at a resort with a topless beach.

Surprised hubby with a vacation to Desire Pearl in Mexico. It wasn’t just a resort with a topless beach, his fantasy vacation. It was a full on clothing optional resort. I shopped for sexy bikini’s and club wear to wear around the resort. DH saw what I had purchased and was eager to see me wearing these outfits. What DH didn’t realize is that his DW had her own fantasies. Purchased a few outfits for DH, parts included a collar, leash and a leather brief amongst other accessories.

Arrived at the resort, DH and I head to pool wearing a g-string bikini. I shed my top and husbands eyes jumped from his head, he’s surrounded by women many naked as well as men. I whispered in his ear, this is the vacation you wanted right?
DH was at a loss for words. I fetched us drinks from the bar as DH took it all in. DH was a good sport, he said he never imagined such a place existed. Took DH a day before he bared his pasty white ass.

Theme night dinner a few days later, BDSM night. I pulled out the collar, leash and leather brief. DH said he’d help me with the collar. Silly man, the collar is for you as is the brief. DH you’re my bitch tonight was my reply. DH was shell shocked but aroused. First time in our 10yr marriage that I was in charge. DH loved it, and walked proudly to dinner on a leash with DW dressed in a black latex bodysuit and boots.

DH fantasy turned reality vacation has transformed our bedroom from mediocre to full blown exciting.

That sounds terrible. Who wants to walk around half naked in front of a strangers? And only a fraction of a percentage of middle aged women look good in a g-string. Honestly, it sounds like a nightmare. Do women actually like this? This sounds like some perverts fantasy.

Only a fraction of people look good in general. Doesn't stop guys with bigger breasts than me from walking around with no shirt on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, call your mans bluff on his fantasy, I did and it has lead to an exciting bedroom.

DH always commented on how hot it would be for us to vacation at a resort with a topless beach.

Surprised hubby with a vacation to Desire Pearl in Mexico. It wasn’t just a resort with a topless beach, his fantasy vacation. It was a full on clothing optional resort. I shopped for sexy bikini’s and club wear to wear around the resort. DH saw what I had purchased and was eager to see me wearing these outfits. What DH didn’t realize is that his DW had her own fantasies. Purchased a few outfits for DH, parts included a collar, leash and a leather brief amongst other accessories.

Arrived at the resort, DH and I head to pool wearing a g-string bikini. I shed my top and husbands eyes jumped from his head, he’s surrounded by women many naked as well as men. I whispered in his ear, this is the vacation you wanted right?
DH was at a loss for words. I fetched us drinks from the bar as DH took it all in. DH was a good sport, he said he never imagined such a place existed. Took DH a day before he bared his pasty white ass.

Theme night dinner a few days later, BDSM night. I pulled out the collar, leash and leather brief. DH said he’d help me with the collar. Silly man, the collar is for you as is the brief. DH you’re my bitch tonight was my reply. DH was shell shocked but aroused. First time in our 10yr marriage that I was in charge. DH loved it, and walked proudly to dinner on a leash with DW dressed in a black latex bodysuit and boots.

DH fantasy turned reality vacation has transformed our bedroom from mediocre to full blown exciting.

That sounds terrible. Who wants to walk around half naked in front of a strangers? And only a fraction of a percentage of middle aged women look good in a g-string. Honestly, it sounds like a nightmare. Do women actually like this? This sounds like some perverts fantasy.

Not PP but I have no problem being nude around others. We usually go to topless beaches in Europe, NC and FL.

I don’t have a problem with naked people but it isn’t something I’d seek out. Most people on public beaches look pretty terrible in swimsuits. Why would I pay money to see that naked?

[Anonymous]

OP here! This thread has taken an interesting turn....

We've talked about going to a nude resort in the past, I think I'll bring it up again. Thanks for the reminder/suggestion

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ladies, call your mans bluff on his fantasy, I did and it has lead to an exciting bedroom.

DH always commented on how hot it would be for us to vacation at a resort with a topless beach.

Surprised hubby with a vacation to Desire Pearl in Mexico. It wasn’t just a resort with a topless beach, his fantasy vacation. It was a full on clothing optional resort. I shopped for sexy bikini’s and club wear to wear around the resort. DH saw what I had purchased and was eager to see me wearing these outfits. What DH didn’t realize is that his DW had her own fantasies. Purchased a few outfits for DH, parts included a collar, leash and a leather brief amongst other accessories.

Arrived at the resort, DH and I head to pool wearing a g-string bikini. I shed my top and husbands eyes jumped from his head, he’s surrounded by women many naked as well as men. I whispered in his ear, this is the vacation you wanted right?
DH was at a loss for words. I fetched us drinks from the bar as DH took it all in. DH was a good sport, he said he never imagined such a place existed. Took DH a day before he bared his pasty white ass.

Theme night dinner a few days later, BDSM night. I pulled out the collar, leash and leather brief. DH said he’d help me with the collar. Silly man, the collar is for you as is the brief. DH you’re my bitch tonight was my reply. DH was shell shocked but aroused. First time in our 10yr marriage that I was in charge. DH loved it, and walked proudly to dinner on a leash with DW dressed in a black latex bodysuit and boots.

DH fantasy turned reality vacation has transformed our bedroom from mediocre to full blown exciting.

A couple of observations ...

1. For many men, it isn't a bluff you're calling.

2. Springing the leash and collar on him at the resort was not cool. Stuff like this is all about consent, right? You had the opportunity to consent to going to the resort. He didn't have the opportunity with regard to the collar.