Have you cheated on your spouse ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've never cheated because I've never had a reason to cheat. When it comes to sex I love that my husband always asks me what I'm in the mood for and then we do it.

Do you Ever ask him what he wants?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my younger early career days I was always amazed about how often I'd be hit on while traveling for business. I had attractive girl next door looks and dressed conservatively so I certainly didn't ooze sex appeal. I never had an affair and never had a need for one but if I had been in an unhappy relationship it would have been so easy. I remember one guy saying that "he wanted to give me pleasure" and I almost spit my drink at him because I started laughing so hard.

This x1000. I am not naive but it was truly astounding how many men propositioned me on work travel and especially conferences. Like even men who you naively thought were good stand up family men. So I now have zero surprise at cheating stories and I assume most men will if given the chance. Color me jaded

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've never cheated because I've never had a reason to cheat. When it comes to sex I love that my husband always asks me what I'm in the mood for and then we do it.

Do you Ever ask him what he wants?

I do quite often but he's always happy with a good BJ.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In my younger early career days I was always amazed about how often I'd be hit on while traveling for business. I had attractive girl next door looks and dressed conservatively so I certainly didn't ooze sex appeal. I never had an affair and never had a need for one but if I had been in an unhappy relationship it would have been so easy. I remember one guy saying that "he wanted to give me pleasure" and I almost spit my drink at him because I started laughing so hard.

This x1000. I am not naive but it was truly astounding how many men propositioned me on work travel and especially conferences. Like even men who you naively thought were good stand up family men. So I now have zero surprise at cheating stories and I assume most men will if given the chance. Color me jaded

+1 I now avoid conference like the plague especially those where teams are formed of 6-8 people to work on some kind of case. I was often the only woman and it didn't take long to figure out who the "hit men" were when there was a team bonding event especially if it included alcohol. But it's not just men as plenty of women are looking for some fun as well. Maybe if the conferences set up their own hook up app it would simplify things for the cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've never cheated because I've never had a reason to cheat. When it comes to sex I love that my husband always asks me what I'm in the mood for and then we do it.

Do you Ever ask him what he wants?

I do quite often but he's always happy with a good BJ.

Most men are!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In my younger early career days I was always amazed about how often I'd be hit on while traveling for business. I had attractive girl next door looks and dressed conservatively so I certainly didn't ooze sex appeal. I never had an affair and never had a need for one but if I had been in an unhappy relationship it would have been so easy. I remember one guy saying that "he wanted to give me pleasure" and I almost spit my drink at him because I started laughing so hard.

This x1000. I am not naive but it was truly astounding how many men propositioned me on work travel and especially conferences. Like even men who you naively thought were good stand up family men. So I now have zero surprise at cheating stories and I assume most men will if given the chance. Color me jaded

+1 I now avoid conference like the plague especially those where teams are formed of 6-8 people to work on some kind of case. I was often the only woman and it didn't take long to figure out who the "hit men" were when there was a team bonding event especially if it included alcohol. But it's not just men as plenty of women are looking for some fun as well. Maybe if the conferences set up their own hook up app it would simplify things for the cheaters.

tinder. also bumble. I'm sure there are plenty of others one out there too.

[Anonymous]

DH, together 17 years, married 13 years. No cheating for either of us, no reason to. We enjoy being with each other.

I wouldn't say I've been outright propositioned but I've been in a few situations where I think women were throwing hints. I didn't pursue it.

I'll admit to fantasizing about other women here and there but I have no urge to act on it.

[Anonymous]

Married fifteen years; never cheated on my wife. I sowed my oats before marriage and my wife and family come first in all things. No regrets.

[Anonymous]

Wife. No.

[Anonymous]

Does a BJ count?

[Anonymous]

Nah dawg never

[Anonymous]

Wife- never. Married 17 years. Together 20.

[Anonymous]

Man, 45 and yes 3 times. Two ons and one longer term affair. The affair was very eye opening since it shows how unbelievably messy things can get and how you can really end up hurting your AP even though you both went into it declaring it was just sex.

I vowed to never do it again but my marital sex life is infrequent at best. I really don't want to divorce but having an AP is a whole other set of problems

[Anonymous]

Man, 45 and yes 3 times. Two ons and one longer term affair. The affair was very eye opening since it shows how unbelievably messy things can get and how you can really end up hurting your AP even though you both went into it declaring it was just sex.

I vowed to never do it again but my marital sex life is infrequent at best. I really don't want to divorce but having an AP is a whole other set of problems

How you end up hurting your AP? What about your family? What about the diseases you potentially exposed your wife to? You obviously still don’t get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Man, 45 and yes 3 times. Two ons and one longer term affair. The affair was very eye opening since it shows how unbelievably messy things can get and how you can really end up hurting your AP even though you both went into it declaring it was just sex.

I vowed to never do it again but my marital sex life is infrequent at best. I really don't want to divorce but having an AP is a whole other set of problems

How you end up hurting your AP? What about your family? What about the diseases you potentially exposed your wife to? You obviously still don’t get it.

She fell very hard for me and had a hard time retuning to her marriage.

We were monogamous with each other so no risk of diseases. Family is fine, no one knows