What makes a happily married loyal husband, stare at other women?

Anonymous
Because he's still alive, I guess. Probably for the same reason I stare at pictures of Aquaman.
Anonymous
Is it age dependent stage of life thing?
Anonymous
It could be any number of reasons depending on the person: attraction, desire, chemistry, longing or frustration, anger, hatred, jealousy
Anonymous
because he's obviously cheating. find a lawyer and divorce him ASAP
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Bipolar disorder
alcoholism
borderline personality disorder
depression and anxiety
drug addiction
entitlement

to name a few


You're insane and an example of everything that's wrong with relationship philosophy in modern times.

I look at beautiful women all the time. That doesn't mean I cheat, or have any of the issues you list. Both men and women have biological and natural instincts and men are simply more visual.

If you are threatened by your hubby catching a glance of an attractive female, then I suggest you adjust your perspective and accept human nature. I also suggest you keep your actions, behavior, sexuality, and appearance such that he has no reason to stray, if that's what you are fearful of.
Anonymous
Great tits
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe that woman is really good looking? My husband doesn't leer or anything, but neither of us are dead and we both notice when a stunning person walks by. Happily married, loyal, not creepy -- none of these are synonyms for blind.


You need to read better. OP said "stare" which is rude and disturbing for many women.


Yea, staring is anything longer that 2 seconds. I think it's natural. I would be worried about a man who's not noticing pretty women.
I'm a woman and I look at everyone. Curiosity, esthetics mostly. Completely normal.
Anonymous
Because he is not dead yet.
Anonymous
How is this even a post. It’s biological. Men like visuals. There is a reason porn is a multi billion dollar business and why men don’t like it when their wives let themselves go. A good man is at least discreet and not staring to make the other woman or his wife uncomfortable.
Anonymous
Looking for his soulmate.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:kind o flike a restaurant.

nice to look at the menue and some of the items on the menu are things that you an appreciate, but you just cant have. Doesn't meant that we don't look at the menu.

Women are the same way. I have my wife, which I love dearly. However there are somethings out there that I can appreciate (other beautiful women) but they are things that I cannot have.

look but don't touch...


So do men in general appreciate and desire other beautiful women, and know they can't have them? Do they wish deep down they can have that other beautiful woman?

I want to understand the male mind.
Anonymous
Did you get fat
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Not stare but honestly when I see well put together woman I notice, I think about how much hotter my wife would look in the outfit than the woman wearing it or she hat I would like to see my wife it that attire. Really had nothing to the individual woman more about the aura.


Sure you do.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:kind o flike a restaurant.

nice to look at the menue and some of the items on the menu are things that you an appreciate, but you just cant have. Doesn't meant that we don't look at the menu.

Women are the same way. I have my wife, which I love dearly. However there are somethings out there that I can appreciate (other beautiful women) but they are things that I cannot have.

look but don't touch...


So do men in general appreciate and desire other beautiful women, and know they can't have them? Do they wish deep down they can have that other beautiful woman?

I want to understand the male mind.


I think this is just semantics. I think you get it.

Most anyone with a pulse wants to fock some strange.

Most of us don’t want diseases or to hurt others.
Anonymous
Big breasts...
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