Or, a parent who has had an older DC in magnet prior to the change, and one now in home school in one of the "enriched" classes might be able to tell the difference as well. So, basically, what you are saying here also is that "who care as long as my child is happy". But I bet when the peer cohort criteria came out, you said, "oh your kids will get a magnet level class and not have to commute so you should be happy now". Now it's "who cares if your child is happy". And no, I'm not bitter. My kid is beyond the "cohort peers" years. |
| If Pyle implemented the same curriculum for everyone, why isn’t the case at every school? |
At our W feeder this was also our experience. |
No one claimed they were getting the whole magnet curriculum. They're getting two classes, in math and world studies, each of which is based on the corresponding class from a magnet. At least they get one class from each program, rather than being in an either/or math/sci/comp sci vs. humanities program. |
Oh, right, so this totally makes up for the "peer cohort" rejection. |
Who said "totally makes up for"? Just pointing out something beneficial. |
Our school said that they took some of the new stuff to enrich all of the world studies classes, but they did not go so far as to say “they’re all the same.” Indeed, even at Pyle, they have left the peer cohort together; so a teacher who had both classes might be able to reflect on whether it is really all the same. |
I’m the Pyle poster who has a child in both classes. You seem really spun up about this and I’m sorry things are not working out for your child as you hoped. That said, my child is learning and is having a positive experience at Pyle. She enjoys her classes and for the most part the teachers. She’s in 6th grade and is happy and healthy which is our goal. I don’t need nor want my 6th grader in a pressure cooker. It’s 6th grade and it is not going to make or break her future career. She is learning a lot more than DH and I did and we went on to top universities and successfull (financially and emotionally) careers. So no, I will not be reaching out to her counselor. |
| There’s a poster on this thread whose kids are “beyond the peer cohort years” who seems to be stoking the fire. Ignore. |
You mean the not enough of an outlier (aka subpar applicant) rejection? |
When you frame it that way it does sound like a good deal. |
This is interesting. I don't think they did this for AIM. Does anyone know whether the AIM curriculum was adopted for all Pyle IM 6 classes? |
It's hard not to be bitter, if your kids are languishing in 7th or 8th grade right now. |
I'm that PP. Why ignore me? I'm asking the same question OP is asking. I can add more details of what MS curriculum is like probably because OP doesn't have a kid who has gone through MS. Or should I be ignored because I'm not stating things prettily enough for you, like "oh yes, the new classes are just wonderful... .who cares if my DC didn't get in as long as DC is happy". All negative comments should be ignored. Only positive comments should be allowed, according to you and probably MCPS. |
As a Bethesda parent who sent both kids to MS magnets, I think PP's comments really reflect the differences I saw on the value parents place on the magnet. I know a number of very bright kids in the Whitman/BCC pyramids who absolutely were qualified for magnets but their parents would not consider sending them because they viewed these schools as "pressure cookers" and valued other things over academic rigor (happiness, ability to be with friends, the belief that MS academics do not affect career/life trajectory, etc.) I'm not saying those values are wrong. But, they are very different from the values I saw of the other cohorts of parents that do send their kids to MS magnets. For example, I am low SES even though I live in the Whitman/BCC pyramid. I value my kid's happiness but define it differently than my parent peers. I see my kids as happy when they are interested in and excited by the place where they spend their days, i.e. school. Home district school was very boring which caused unhappiness, magnet was harder but more interesting which meant that they were overall happier. Also, due to my low SES, I am not as confident that my kids can be as successful in career/life, because I recognize how much more other parent peers are able to give them to start their careers -- opportunities to do unpaid internships, introductions to important mentors or first jobs, the ability to full pay for college of choice, etc. If I could do those things, I would be a lot more confident that DC's academics in middle and high school won't affect their college and thus career opportunities. A lot of other magnet parents also had different values -- immigrants place a different value on getting the best education possible at every level, IME. And, "happiness" has a different place and definition by culture. FWIW, I had kids at both Eastern and TPMS magnets, and I would call neither a "pressure cooker" and neither would either of my kids. |