wife visiting parents but....

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Anonymous wrote:I’m still laughing about OP’s comment about the yellow toenail. I think because I have a yellow toenail too.

Yellow Toe Nail = Loose Woman

You need to get that fixed pronto. Soon you will not be able to control that wandering eye of yours.

Doesn't matter. Once a yellow toenail woman whore, always a yellow toenail woman whore. Pretty sure that's in the Bible.

I really hope not, because 12 year-old DD has one.

Nail fungus is a papillomavirus (HPV) and that is a STD

Better keep your toe away from my private parts then

Actually, i think toenail fungus is a fungus.

Whoosh

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Maybe she's having her yellow toenail removed. Hang in there, OP.

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Relax. Write a timeline of the facts. Write what the parents told you and keep calling them. Write down what your DH said as best as you remember. Check her cell phone texts and call log by signing into the cellphone company (unless she has another phone). If she is smart, she would probably leave no trace but you never know. Think in the past six months of any outings that your wife was going to go to with friends. You can validate lying. Check all credit cards unless she uses prepaid ones. Clues are there is you really look. I was naïve once and I had to know because it was an awful feeling. It will get better but only through time. My XW had an AP for 3 months until routines and her behavior came out.

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Any updates?

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What exactly is the thought process with this and similar posts...

"I'm having trouble in my relationship, hey I better immediately post my frustrations on DCUM!!"

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Anonymous wrote:Relax. Write a timeline of the facts. Write what the parents told you and keep calling them. Write down what your DH said as best as you remember. Check her cell phone texts and call log by signing into the cellphone company (unless she has another phone). If she is smart, she would probably leave no trace but you never know. Think in the past six months of any outings that your wife was going to go to with friends. You can validate lying. Check all credit cards unless she uses prepaid ones. Clues are there is you really look. I was naïve once and I had to know because it was an awful feeling. It will get better but only through time. My XW had an AP for 3 months until routines and her behavior came out.

No. All of that is insane. If you have suspicions, it's already over. Save your time, and separate.

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Anonymous wrote:Relax. Write a timeline of the facts. Write what the parents told you and keep calling them. Write down what your DH said as best as you remember. Check her cell phone texts and call log by signing into the cellphone company (unless she has another phone). If she is smart, she would probably leave no trace but you never know. Think in the past six months of any outings that your wife was going to go to with friends. You can validate lying. Check all credit cards unless she uses prepaid ones. Clues are there is you really look. I was naïve once and I had to know because it was an awful feeling. It will get better but only through time. My XW had an AP for 3 months until routines and her behavior came out.

No. All of that is insane. If you have suspicions, it's already over. Save your time, and separate.

Agreed. I am married I am not in OPs shoes. However, I would get organized for the divorce and taking care of kids. The wife, as much as it hurts, she is not worth the agony. As to the in-laws, take the high road and you will be fine.

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Any updates?

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OP went back to her troll home under the bridge.

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OP went back to her troll home under the bridge.

Probably.

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Anonymous wrote:What exactly is the thought process with this and similar posts...

"I'm having trouble in my relationship, hey I better immediately post my frustrations on DCUM!!"

Well... I didn't want to air this stuff out with my family/friends and I needed to vent to help me process what was happening. An anonymous relationship board looked like a good place to express my thoughts and maybe get some advice. The advice I got was mixed and a lot of folks thought it would be ok to call me a troll or make jokes. Just one more piece of evidence that a man getting cheated on is no-big-deal to many people.

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Anonymous wrote:Any updates?

OP went back to her troll home under the bridge.

Probably.

No. She gets back on Wednesday and I'm not looking forward to it. Its probably not the smart thing to do but I'm trying not to think about it too much. I haven't spoken with her in a few days. I know I'm avoiding things but I don't want to deal with it right now.

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OP - go to survivinginfidelity.com. You will get the support you need.

- om someone who has been in your shoes.

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Anonymous wrote:Any updates?

OP went back to her troll home under the bridge.

Probably.

No. She gets back on Wednesday and I'm not looking forward to it. Its probably not the smart thing to do but I'm trying not to think about it too much. I haven't spoken with her in a few days. I know I'm avoiding things but I don't want to deal with it right now.

Hey OP, how about an update?

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OP, I believe you. And I loathe cheaters of both sexes.

I second the recommendation to check out Surviving Infidelity. You’ll get real support there.

Take good care of yourself, and good luck.