Is it weird for a 41 year old to date a 25 year old?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm 61 and my GF of 6 years is 15 years younger than me. She likes older men, she says, although the biggest age gap she's had in the past was about 5 years. It works for us. Why do you care about other couples. I'd seriously never date a woman my age unless she was really exceptional.

Why would you never date a woman your age?

Because, with rare exception, women my age look and act too old for me. I date a younger women, because I can. But I won't rehash it here. The last time I commented on it, there were about 10 pages of comments. I'm not trolling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 35 and my boyfriend is 49. I have never loved anyone the way I love him. We have many things in common and we laugh all the time. We have a blast doing everything. He is interesting and wise. The only "problem" is I do have a higher sec drive and I am insanely attracted to him. I could go daily...he is more like 2 to 3 times a week. I am okay with it because the times we do have sex it is off the charts amazing! I think older men have more experience and are more sure of themselves. I dont think there is anything weird about our relationship.

I'm 51 and my DH is 66 and he is very willing and able to have sex 4-5 times a week but I'm only good 2-3 times. Maybe we should swap men!

[Anonymous]

I'm 45 and early this year I dated a 31 year old for about three months. He was very sweet but our tastes and interests were really a generation apart and I soon realized his parents and I likely had a lot more in common. But sexually he reminded me what it was like to be in my 20's when extended sessions were the norm. He was able to get me there multiple times and never seemed to tire.

[Anonymous]

I had a 40 YO girlfriend when I was 25. There was nothing weird about it. It was just fun, get over it.

[Anonymous]

no - it's normal if you can pull 25 year olds.

[Anonymous]

18-26 is the sweet spot.