Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you think this is the dumbest thread ever, you probably haven't been on DCUM for long.
That said, in our family's experience the college application process at Sidwell plays out more subtly than it's portrayed here. We've had two kids graduate and I've never heard of a kid being flat-out told that s/he can't apply to a specific college. Instead, counselors will hint at how competitive the student's cohort is, and parents can either get that or not, or choose to back off or not. The counselors will write the school recommendation anyway, but, of course, it might not be as supportive as the family might like. OTOH, teacher recommendations can count for a lot more (I say this as a former admissions staffer from many years back). As far as phone calls to admissions officers, honestly that doesn't happen anywhere near as much as people think, and when the calls are made, they're nowhere near as influential either. That said, phone calls can make a difference for wait-listed students. My personal take: do not pick Sidwell or any other school because you think your kid is going to waltz into whatever your fantasy school is for him/her. And, more fundamentally, stop obsessing about college -- there's so much more to life and parenting than that.
PP, assuming you do want your child to have the option of attending a top rank school, is Sidwell not the right place?
Unlike other cities and states in the country - barring SF, Boston, NY - many, many, many kids in this area "want the option of attending a top rank school." Don't be ridiculous.
Sidwell will definitely reprogram your kid to want that no matter what. Will take strong personality, parenting, or life values to buck that mentality there and be happy with what life does hand you.
Being top 10% of any strong public or top private school around here will increase your odds. Add in major donor or super athlete or URM or quirky talent and you could be Top 25% and get into "top rank school."