How much do you and your DH make OP and where do you live? Makes a difference. |
Right? I was making $40,000 at 24. I don't really think I could have afforded to put almost half my salary in my 401k LOL! |
How can you make too much for child support? I'm confused. |
Can you explain this -- is this a company rule? Because I've never heard of this. |
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So, the family paying 50K/year for private school and not saving for retirement is calling someone else ignorant and uninformed? There are lots of good reasons why many people cannot maximize retirement savings but this one is laughable. You got yourself into the situation where you cannot use public schools. Your response should have been “poor decision making”. |
+1. LOL. I know right? |
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I don’t fully find right now because am in a new job. Which only matches the amounts paid into the 401k during eligibility. So I’m doing a tiny bit now but when I becone dlibibke later this year I’ll put a lot more than usual in. Works out to the same amount for me but ensures I get the match (which is paid out annually).
Meaning-if I did the minimu to get the match all year they would only match what I put in in the last 6 months of 2018. But back loading my contributions I get more funds eligible to be matched. |
| Because we are both military and have 20 year retirement pensions right around the corner. Plus, we both maxed out our TSPs for the first 8 or 9 years of our career. We finally sat down and did the math and realized we were going to be stupid rich when we retired at 60. So we reduced our contributions and decided to live a little while we were young, healthy and had kids still in the house. Still don't regret the decision. |
How rich is stupid rich? |
| Because I lost my job several years ago and have taken much lower-paying work and am making about $30K. Can't afford it now. |
FYI, the way tax laws are, if the lower paid people in a company are not contributing a large enough percentage of their income then a group of people deemed "highly compensated" are not allowed to contribute more than 10% of their income, that's fine for people making more than $180K but people in my company who made $120K to $179K were hurt and couldn't max out even if we wanted to. Stinks that the truly highly paid aren't the ones being punished. |
It's called the Safe Harbor rule. Companies can get around it thru complicated accounting but few choose to do so due to the cost. Typically if you are an HCE and your 401K contributions are capped your employer may have a separate non qualified plan. Basically these plans are deferred comp plans. So as long as your employer is healthy your money will be there when the time comes. If your employer goes under you are in a long line of creditors looking for your $$. |
' Out of curiosity, do you think that our investment in grad school will eventually pay off? Do you have any regrets? |
Yeah, we broke with it when we had daycare for a baby and 2-yr-old, and spouse in school. Sometimes retirement has to take a break. |