Do holiday visitors help with dishes?

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Anonymous wrote:As a visitor I really want to help with the dishes. Small way to show appreciation and be useful. No matter what culture, put me to work!

No. RUDE, RUDE, RUDE. You do not know my kitchen and are more of a pest than a help. Stay in Living Room and behave like a guest. I do not offer to help when I am a guest.

+1 to rude

I have had broken china and crystal thanks to helpers. If I need help I will ask for it, otherwise just relax.

Me, too. These people who relentlessly insist on helping clean need to learn some social grace.

That could go either way.

Nope. If you're doing something against the wishes of your host, it is most certainly you who is without social grace. However, I wouldn't expect one of these jackasses who makes a grandiose display of insisting to have the self-awareness to understand how rude they are.

Wow. Uptight, much