5, 7, 1
I didn't get 1, though his income is adequate. Five and seven, partially. |
I am a lady who chose the looks, because I really don't care about how much money the guy makes. I go for guys who are young and hot. Does that make me somehow superior to women who chose money? Is choosing for looks, which men usually love to brag about, somehow more noble than choosing for money? Everyone has their preferences. I can't imagine any amount of money would make me cool with being with someone I considered ugly or unattractive, and I can't see how people do. But I also don't fault those who do. Sounds like you have some serious issues with women that go far beyond this particular issue. |
4,3, 2
51 year old woman, married 20 years |
1 and 4. I'm good. |
So basically you're a hooker? |
Thats an awful thing to say. Look at the number of guys on here complaining that their wives won't sleep with them. It seems like women are damned if they do and damned if they don't. |
What's bothersome about that isn't that she has sex with her husband, it's that she doesn't prioritize having similar interests / being life partners. But hey, as long as the $$ keeps coming.. |
Huh? I wonder how warped your mind should be to arrive at this conclusion. |
FFS. Who died and made you the priority police? Good like with your "partnership" and long gut-wrenching therapy sessions ![]() |
LOL what? Yes, I actually like spending time with my husband, in addition to having sex with him. |
Money and sex .... not that hard to see |
My DH and I have a great marriage that works very well for us. We enjoy each other's company, we respect each other, and parent and run our family and household well. We don't have many similar interests, although we do share a basic outlook on the world and most political views. Each of us has several close friends, and we each have a strong social circle outside of our marriage. We were involved in different community and charitable organizations, enjoy different sports, and have different hobbies. I don't need to find everything and my husband, and it has actually worked out better for us that we don't. As long as spouses are complementary, and their marriage works well for them, who is anyone to say how people should prioritize what they choose in their spouse? That seems crazy. |
I assumed it was another woman who called you a hooker. |
I'm a guy, not the poster who got called a hooker. |
1. Makes a lot of money. Not a lot but six figures. It's fine
2. Shares in household chores I would love this. I'd give up half his salary if he would do this. 3. Stay's attractive and fit Lacking 4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed Cares but is not god in bed 5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed Yes 6. Doesn't lust after a near by neighbor or my sister. Check 7. OK- #6 is a pushing it but....he cares about my feelings! Yes So maybe 3, 5, 4? |