For wives - pick three!

[Anonymous]

1,2,5 if 6 is a given. If not, then change out 6 for 5 in my picks.

[Anonymous]

I have high standards, sorry. I'm going with all of them. I wouldn't have married someone who didn't have each of those things.

[Anonymous]

Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have high standards, sorry. I'm going with all of them. I wouldn't have married someone who didn't have each of those things.

Yes, everyone marries hoping that their spouse stays attractive and fit and that their sex life stays robust through children and ageing etc. the question is for people already married- what matters now. What's happening or what do you prioritize now?

I'm sure you aren't the only one with high standards. I'm sure you still, like everyone, prioritize those standards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Since the "for husbands thread" created a lot of interest how about a wives "pick three" thread for what you want in a husband:

1. Makes a lot of money.
2. Shares in household chores
3. Stay's attractive and fit
4. Cares about my sexual needs and is good in bed
5. We have common interests and enjoy being together....outside of bed
6. Doesn't lust after a near by neighbor or my sister.
7. OK- #6 is a pushing it but....he cares about my feelings!

Go for it girls!

5, 4, 1

I can't imagine I would enjoy spending time with someone who didn't care about my feelings or lusted after a neighbor/my nonexistent sister.
I am high drive and don't want phone it in duty sex
If he makes a lot of money, we can outsource much of 2.
We all get old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.

All things equal nobody wants to be a with a broke dude. Life is much better all around if we aren't scrambling to make ends meet. But keep making those lattes, the supermarket cashier of your dreams will find you.

[Anonymous]

1,5 and 3

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.

All things equal nobody wants to be a with a broke dude. Life is much better all around if we aren't scrambling to make ends meet. But keep making those lattes, the supermarket cashier of your dreams will find you.

Keep hurling insults the truth must really bite. FWI, I am a 40 something marries male with a 200k income and a house in Fairfax.

I just find it funny that all the DCUM's claim to be smarter and make more money than their husbands or can't find a good man to love, yet all they are looking for here is money.

Money whores.

[Anonymous]

Please make these modifications.

Add # 8. Good father

# 6. Change to reliable, honest and trustworthy.
# 1. Change to good provider ( consistent, dependable, not necessary to make a lot of money)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have high standards, sorry. I'm going with all of them. I wouldn't have married someone who didn't have each of those things.

Yes, everyone marries hoping that their spouse stays attractive and fit and that their sex life stays robust through children and ageing etc. the question is for people already married- what matters now. What's happening or what do you prioritize now?

I'm sure you aren't the only one with high standards. I'm sure you still, like everyone, prioritize those standards.

I prioritize all of those things. I have them all now. I wouldn't put up with a man who let himself get fat, had an affair with my neighbor, or didn't help me with household chores and children. And no I wouldn't have married a man with poor earning potential either or someone I didn't get along with in or out of bed.

The one thing I could let go, I guess, is #6. I wouldn't put up with an actual affair or flirtation, as I said, but I can't control his thoughts. I'm sure he does lust after other women. I certain find other men attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.

All things equal nobody wants to be a with a broke dude. Life is much better all around if we aren't scrambling to make ends meet. But keep making those lattes, the supermarket cashier of your dreams will find you.

Keep hurling insults the truth must really bite. FWI, I am a 40 something marries male with a 200k income and a house in Fairfax.

I just find it funny that all the DCUM's claim to be smarter and make more money than their husbands or can't find a good man to love, yet all they are looking for here is money.

Money whores.

And yet in the other thread all the men talk about are tight bodies, and daily porn sex. Y'all don't have the high ground, I'm sorry. Thanks for playing though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.

All things equal nobody wants to be a with a broke dude. Life is much better all around if we aren't scrambling to make ends meet. But keep making those lattes, the supermarket cashier of your dreams will find you.

Keep hurling insults the truth must really bite. FWI, I am a 40 something marries male with a 200k income and a house in Fairfax.

I just find it funny that all the DCUM's claim to be smarter and make more money than their husbands or can't find a good man to love, yet all they are looking for here is money.

Money whores.

200k in fairfax? Living my nightmare. But it clearly sounds like you are that "good man" you tak about - running around screaming about what whores women are and all. You sound like a true gentleman.

- independently wealthy woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Every answer but one chose number 1 yet you DCUM's always claim to be superior to their husbands. Money grubbing b*#ches.

All things equal nobody wants to be a with a broke dude. Life is much better all around if we aren't scrambling to make ends meet. But keep making those lattes, the supermarket cashier of your dreams will find you.

Keep hurling insults the truth must really bite. FWI, I am a 40 something marries male with a 200k income and a house in Fairfax.

I just find it funny that all the DCUM's claim to be smarter and make more money than their husbands or can't find a good man to love, yet all they are looking for here is money.

Money whores.

What, are we supposed to be impressed by this salary? Come back when you're making 3x that amount and maybe we'll talk then. I guess your wife didn't marry you for #1!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have high standards, sorry. I'm going with all of them. I wouldn't have married someone who didn't have each of those things.

Yes, everyone marries hoping that their spouse stays attractive and fit and that their sex life stays robust through children and ageing etc. the question is for people already married- what matters now. What's happening or what do you prioritize now?

I'm sure you aren't the only one with high standards. I'm sure you still, like everyone, prioritize those standards.

I prioritize all of those things. I have them all now. I wouldn't put up with a man who let himself get fat, had an affair with my neighbor, or didn't help me with household chores and children. And no I wouldn't have married a man with poor earning potential either or someone I didn't get along with in or out of bed.

The one thing I could let go, I guess, is #6. I wouldn't put up with an actual affair or flirtation, as I said, but I can't control his thoughts. I'm sure he does lust after other women. I certain find other men attractive.

Oh. Well, yeah, if you'd divorce your husband for gaining weight or losing his job I wouldn't really say you have high standards so much as you must have takes really different vows than I did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have high standards, sorry. I'm going with all of them. I wouldn't have married someone who didn't have each of those things.

Yes, everyone marries hoping that their spouse stays attractive and fit and that their sex life stays robust through children and ageing etc. the question is for people already married- what matters now. What's happening or what do you prioritize now?

I'm sure you aren't the only one with high standards. I'm sure you still, like everyone, prioritize those standards.

I prioritize all of those things. I have them all now. I wouldn't put up with a man who let himself get fat, had an affair with my neighbor, or didn't help me with household chores and children. And no I wouldn't have married a man with poor earning potential either or someone I didn't get along with in or out of bed.

The one thing I could let go, I guess, is #6. I wouldn't put up with an actual affair or flirtation, as I said, but I can't control his thoughts. I'm sure he does lust after other women. I certain find other men attractive.

Oh. Well, yeah, if you'd divorce your husband for gaining weight or losing his job I wouldn't really say you have high standards so much as you must have takes really different vows than I did.

I wouldn't divorce immediately but I would tell him to make some changes, and support those efforts, if he was gaining a lot of weight (unhealthy) or unemployed for a long period (depressed). YMMV but I have a fantastic marriage compared to most of the people who miserably post on here about their lack of sex lives or even friendly connection with spouses. Probably because I ask for what I want and then expect to get it.