So you are denying there is rampant fraud??? Bwhahahaha. |
Do you have any evidence there is? Proof, not your own inklings. And if so, why aren't you reporting it? Anyone who knew for a fact it was happening and legitimately cared would be reporting and not complaining on DCUM. |
| Clearly the majority of people on this thread don't even understand how the system works. The majority of the "unethical" claims are well within the rules, all of which are public documents. Chances are most of what you think is fraud is actually your misunderstanding. But by all means, carry on complaining a lot and doing nothing to change things. |
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Is there one liar out there? Sure. Does that mean most people are liars? No. Is the OP trying to figure out whether to lie or not? ?? OP, don't lie. The truth is always the best policy in the end. Liars tend to get "outed" sooner or later. It's better to live your life on the high road . . . the low road isn't going to make you feel better about yourself and, in the end, you have to live with yourself. And your children will respect you more. |
| People who get paid under the table and don't pay taxes. |
+1000 NP here with no prior comments. Absolutely not. |
Best comment on the whole thread. |
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I think a lot of people are lying.
And it isn't just free lunch students are getting - it is a whole host of other benefits. Parking passes. Gym uniforms. |
You sound very cynical and dramatic.
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This is what I don't understand. How are the low income people not priced out of the area? |
I AM priced out of my area and always have been, even as a two income family during my marriage. But I wanted access to the best public schools I could manage so housing is an indecently large chunk of my income and we scrimp on everything else. I rarely buy new clothing for myself or the kids. We used to have a 15 year old car and now have no car. We almost never eat out, go to the movies, or go on vacation. Last three vacations my best friend hosted us at the beach. And that's three times in eight years. We did take one bare bones international trip that was years of scrimping and saving. No fancy electronics except my smart phone which is how I get anything done and, no, the gov't doesn't pay for it. My kids don't have Xbox or Wii. I cut our hair. We can just barely swing rent by cutting out all the fat. I don't think I'm alone. I know many other families making similar choices to live in a good school zone. |
They are, on their owns. But check out craigslist. Roommates, basement rentals, etc. People use credit or get loans (not countable for SNAP benefits.) Spend 80% of their take home on rent and don't buy themselves anything. Etc |
I hear the same things. But also some of them share a house with a large number of relatives (one told me he lived in a townhouse with 18 people). The poorest kids' familes were bouncing from place to place, staying with this or that family in a spare bedroom for a few weeks or months at a time. |
I used to be a teacher and at the beginning of the year we were required to visit every single student in their home. So I saw how they lived. They were not lying. |
Some sort of lie. Others live with a family member or friend who owns the home. |