I would enjoy reading an essay about the trials and tribulations of moving your harp from concert to concert in 6" of snow versus toting a violin. The imagination could really go to some interesting visuals in that essay. |
I disagree. The assumption is that students are transferring out of STEM majors because it is too hard. I was a STEM major, and I'd say that this explanation only accounts for a small percentage of people who transfer out. The reality is that STEM professors themselves lack soft skills because they don't perceive them to be "real" qualifications, and the classes are boring and un-engaging. They too think that telling interesting stories or connecting with students on a personal level takes away from "real" learning, and as a result they come off as aloof and unapproachable. This also means that few students transfer into STEM subjects, because the intro-level classes aren't nearly as inspiring as they are in other subjects where being articulate is seen as an actual skill. |
Yale interviewer here. Not even close. Person B has just been coached on "proper interview technique". It doesn't make that person any more memorable - while I know captaining a sports team is a leadership position and these poor kids need to say something, the ones that are memorable are the ones who can hold an engaged conversation to the extent I forget I'm talking to a teenager. I don't give particularly high marks to the ones who never can shake off the beauty-pageant-contestant answers to questions. Part of what I'm looking for is those that don't seem to have an inordinate desire to please and give the impression that when they are really on their own in a high-stress environment, they have the internal resources to deal and take it with a grain of salt. |
You seem like you have an agenda to prove, and your method of interviewing basically just selects for kids who have interests that are similar to yours or can suck up enough to be "engaging". Btw, your recommendation is basically meaningless. Kid B wins because they give me more details to include in the write up, not because they have "proper interview technique". |
I was a STEM major too; almost everybody I Know who transferred out did it because they couldn't hack it. |
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You're responding to different posters, so don't assume an agenda. I previously said neither A nor B get in, but I'm not the Yale interviewer. We just agree. (As, apparently, do a couple other posters).
FWIW, I don't look for shared interests -- if anything, I probably tend to be more impressed by kids who are able to make things I'm not especially drawn to seem interesting. I think Yale interviewer's comment that you forget that you're talking to a teenager really captures what makes the exceptional kids stand out. And, yeah, our recommendations as interviewers are meaningless -- but so are yours. Alumni interviews rarely matter. That said, I've also been involved in admissions and fellowship decisionmaking (and recommendation writing) as a faculty member, so I've seen lots of applicant files and that also shapes my perspective re what gets a candidate noticed. |
So what gets noticed, other than this not seeming like a teenager vibe? |
+1 Share your secrets! Having met many of these kids from DD's school who went on to Ivies, they all still sounded like teenagers to me, just slightly more introspective ones. I don't think A or B were supposed to be examples of exact conversations given they were stereotypical caricatures, just a way to illustrate that B was more in depth in portraying the "whys" than A even though they had the same accomplishments. |
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Things that make applicants stand out: direction, focus, humor, follow-through, unpackaged experiences, initiative, thoughtfulness. I thought X, so I did Y. Intellectual drive/energy. Well-reasoned but unconventional choices.
Basically, you've got a whole bunch of kids doing the needful. And defining the needful in similar ways (e.g. a sport, an art, challenging coursework, volunteering, summer enrichment, an internship, experience abroad). As you can deduce from this list, most of the kids I've interviewed are upper middle class. Some are more articulate, some have done these things better than others. A few (surprisingly few, actually) can give you specific reasons re why they are a good match for this school/program/fellowship. But on some level, they all look alike. The compelling applications are ones where the kid has a project/mission/purpose/sensibility that's powerful and different. They aren't just going to college because it's the next step toward adulthood and you need to do well to get into grad school to get a good job. There's something they really want to learn or do or experience and they know what it is and why they think this is where they'll find it. |
| Re not seeming like a teenager. I think I've failed to convey that well. The kids still seem like teenagers, it's just that at some point in the conversation or in reading what they've written, the fact that they're a teenager trying to get into college drops out of the interaction and they're just an interesting person you're talking to (or it's just an engaging essay you're reading). Basically, the content transcends the genre. You're not just watching the compulsory figures part of the show anymore. |
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Great points. This is pretty much what I look for as well. However, I do try to keep in mind that the idea of being driven or having a purpose can have different cultural manifestations as well be as affected by whether a kid grew up in a family that encouraged exploration, or if they grew up with abusive or negligent parents and are just trying to do the right thing and go to college to survive. |
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| If an applicant is quite gifted and talented and attends a proven feeder like GDS, the odds of Harvard and Yale are much enhanced. I've met some truly outstanding GDS students who would be dynamite in interviews. |
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Again, I don't think the interviews influence acceptances.
But I think that when I see these attributes in interviews, they're also highly likely to be reflected in other aspects of the application. I've certainly seen them in paperwork before (e.g. in fellowship and grad admissions). And their presence was striking in my HYP cohort (certainly more striking than intelligence or commitment to academics). Re is it developmental? In some cases. But, honestly, most adults never develop it. Sure, some kids get it later and some lose it (or only appeared to have it because they matured earlier than the rest of their cohort). I also think there's an environmental/cultural component. We've made doing the needful such a burden/drain that, honestly, it's much harder for kids caught up in this frenzy to find the time and energy to explore and develop their own interests and goals. There's a whole interesting side conversation to be had about race/class/privilege, but those conversations get so ugly on DCUM that I'm not sure I want to go there in this forum. |