How did you tell your dh you wanted him to move out?

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Anonymous wrote:I'd also like DH to leave the house, which we own jointly, to give DD continuity, assuming I'd eventually have custody more than 50%. Realistically, it's unlikely he will.

Why do you assume you'll have more than 50%?

I'm not the PP, but if she's been doing more than 50% of the child rearing, a judge is likely to continue that in a custody decision.

Keep a calendar, PP. Write down all of the occasions that you attended school events/sports/piano recitals and DH was too busy/unmotivated to come. Take pictures if you can to show he wasn't there. Document who goes to pediatrician visits and who helps with HW.

Of all the dumb pieces of advice, this one really takes the cake.

Took photos and video of every dance recital for 3 years. He had no answer when my lawyer asked why he couldn't be spotted in any images if he claimed to have attended.

Might be dumb, but it helped make my case. Which is why I have primary custody.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd also like DH to leave the house, which we own jointly, to give DD continuity, assuming I'd eventually have custody more than 50%. Realistically, it's unlikely he will.

Why do you assume you'll have more than 50%?

I'm not the PP, but if she's been doing more than 50% of the child rearing, a judge is likely to continue that in a custody decision.

Keep a calendar, PP. Write down all of the occasions that you attended school events/sports/piano recitals and DH was too busy/unmotivated to come. Take pictures if you can to show he wasn't there. Document who goes to pediatrician visits and who helps with HW.

Of all the dumb pieces of advice, this one really takes the cake.

Took photos and video of every dance recital for 3 years. He had no answer when my lawyer asked why he couldn't be spotted in any images if he claimed to have attended.

Might be dumb, but it helped make my case. Which is why I have primary custody.

He was the one taking the pictures????