Would you apologize?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:lol I should have seen the harshness coming. Is everyone here so perfect? Did you guys stop getting drunk at 22? Never done something you regret? I got drunk on NYE like a large percentage of the adult population. Big deal. What about getting drunk one night says I have a problem with alcohol? Prior to that night I can't recall my last truly drunk night.

Thanks to those who answered decently. I too was worried an apology might make things more awkward or that i was using it as excuse to communicate unnecessarily. To the rest of you who are so worried about my DH and my friends, get your heads out of your asses. Of course my marriage isn't happy and perfect. My DH and I are completely open with each other about everything. I know who his little crushes are, he knows mine. Well my one and only. Our mutual friend who lives 4 hours a way and we see every couple months at best. While there might be many things in my life that would indicate therapy, this isn't one of them.

OP, not saying this is you, I don't know you-- but people who have alcohol issues sometimes think that they never get really drunk, or don't get as drunk as they truly are. Again, not saying you have a problem, but things in your post were red flags for me that alcohol plays a large role in your lives. Your husband passed out at the party-- drunk, I assume-- and you drank so much, you threw yourself at this other guy. It sounds out of control.