Where to meet marriage-minded men?

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

Sad but true. I know a great looking dude, tall and big wallet that is locking down a woman that is several steps below him in desirability. He says she isn't replaceable in bed.

What the heck does she do that’s so great?

If you need to ask, you’re not doing it. Basic educated women in the DMV are a dime a dozen. Hot women in bed tends to be the high demand.

Do you think that trolling on a mommy site will get you more sexual access to women? Odd behavior.

What gave you the idea that DC Urban Moms and Dads is a “mommy site?”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Outside of the usual dating apps - hinge, bumble, CMB, the league etc., what type of meetups or activities or other groups etc helping you meet a partner? Looking for men in their 30s and 40s for marriage, and getting very tired of all the ghosting/short term relationships on dating apps. I’m thinking of adding 1-2 in person meetups per week (with the hope of casting a wider net, but not necessarily dating events). Insights appreciated!

Why do you need to get married? Why do you need men? They are going to ruin your life. Stay away from men and your life will be easier.

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Church.

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DCUM! Check the nanny boyfriend sextiin

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

Sad but true. I know a great looking dude, tall and big wallet that is locking down a woman that is several steps below him in desirability. He says she isn't replaceable in bed.

What the heck does she do that’s so great?

I think you know.

I rarely give BJ’s and I’m happily married 25+ years. I’d rather be single than have to do that all the time! Not worth it!

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In 2026 the internet has made it so the best guys aren't marriage-minded since they have all the options.

When I meet a guy who is keen on marriage, my inner voice wonders why he's so desperate.

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I met mine on an anonymous forum. Yes, really. No, not this one.

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- golf
- tennis
- alumni groups
- professional organization meetings

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Anonymous wrote:In 2026 the internet has made it so the best guys aren't marriage-minded since they have all the options.

When I meet a guy who is keen on marriage, my inner voice wonders why he's so desperate.

To answer your last paragraph, my two nephews are mid 30s and marriage minded. Both have dated and lived with women. But they want to make it a formal commitment and also be fathers. Is that desperate? I'm sure tired of dating is part of it.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

LOL you thing women can't keep good men... hon, they can't find any.

This is true. A good educated, high earning men would care a lot about your performance in bed. You keep him happy there and he will keep you happy in everything else. It is actually that simple. Women who are going to argue about this are probably bad in bed or have lost all sex drive or interest with their partners. Their relationship is done and if they are still in it, then it will be done soon.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

Sad but true. I know a great looking dude, tall and big wallet that is locking down a woman that is several steps below him in desirability. He says she isn't replaceable in bed.

What the heck does she do that’s so great?

I think you know.

I rarely give BJ’s and I’m happily married 25+ years. I’d rather be single than have to do that all the time! Not worth it!

Happily Married? Does he think the same way?

If he doesn't care about it then it's not a big deal otherwise it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:- golf
- tennis
- alumni groups
- professional organization meetings

My younger sibling is 33 and met their current partner this way.

Going to a school that has active alum reunions like Princeton helps tremendously

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Your best bet is to do OLD with the Burned Haystack Dating Method. Otherwise you'll waste a lot of emotional energy attending events not because you truly want to be there, but because you're hoping you'll magically find a man there. Let me tell you, the men you meet out in the wild are no different from the ones you meet online. Well, the exception would be those men who are very able to ensnare women with their looks, money, and charm and who enjoy that chase. Those guys don't need to bother with OLD. But the men you'll met IRL tend to be even worse than the ones online. You have no way of screening them objectively before accepting a coffee date or sharing your number. (And don't give out your real number to men in the wild! Make a Google number for these purposes!) Dating men you meet IRL is way riskier than OLD. You want to be able to vet him online before investing any energy. When you meet IRL you skip right over all the screening and develop a crush or at least get excited about the man before you know anything about him other than that he's good looking and wears an expensive watch. Prospect on OLD, get their phone number as quickly as possible, search it, and then go from there. You will have to screen out hundreds and hundreds of men this way and wait a long time to find someone worthwhile. But it will give you access to those men you're hoping to meet by chance at some dance class.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if you're really good in bed he's going to want to lock it down. Focus on your bedroom skills and you'll have a higher conversion rate on your short-term =>long term transition.

Sad but true. I know a great looking dude, tall and big wallet that is locking down a woman that is several steps below him in desirability. He says she isn't replaceable in bed.

What the heck does she do that’s so great?

I think you know.

I rarely give BJ’s and I’m happily married 25+ years. I’d rather be single than have to do that all the time! Not worth it!

Lol same (20 yrs). Dh loves going down so he does it often, I don't enjoy it so don't. Intimacy is far more wide reaching than performing sexual favors you don't want to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Outside of the usual dating apps - hinge, bumble, CMB, the league etc., what type of meetups or activities or other groups etc helping you meet a partner? Looking for men in their 30s and 40s for marriage, and getting very tired of all the ghosting/short term relationships on dating apps. I’m thinking of adding 1-2 in person meetups per week (with the hope of casting a wider net, but not necessarily dating events). Insights appreciated!

Go to a GOP meeting.

Unless you are over the age of 18 then it might be hard to find someone there. Oh wait nope The Heritage Foundation, Trump & JD Vance think 10 year olds can marry and birth children.... Have fun!