Ladies, Do Your DHs Know About Your One Night Stands?

[Anonymous]

I will tell him a few of the one nighters but not getting into details like getting spit roasted on spring break. Limits to what I will say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will tell him a few of the one nighters but not getting into details like getting spit roasted on spring break. Limits to what I will say.

Lack of honesty and openness is one of the main destroyers of marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

It's more of a man thing.

Men are more visual and being told details often excites them, or helps them learn or remember.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DCUM wives: girls who have sex for fun and because they want to when they’re young and single are gross

DCUM husbands: why won’t my wife have sex with me

No, that is the DCUM tradwife squad who is saying that.

Normal “DCUM wives” aren’t religious weirdos.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

that's just your insecurity talking

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

that's just your insecurity talking

So you lie to your spouse. Got it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

what else fo you expect explicir details of?

Their shits?

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

what else fo you expect explicir details of?

Their shits?

If that's a concern, then yes you share your medical issues with a spouse also. No wonder you have had rocky relationships if you are so closed off and shy and willing to lie.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

what else fo you expect explicir details of?

Their shits?

If that's a concern, then yes you share your medical issues with a spouse also. No wonder you have had rocky relationships if you are so closed off and shy and willing to lie.

Ewww. Tradwives want to hear about your poop.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

Anyone who insists on every detail is someone who doesn’t deserve trust.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

what else fo you expect explicir details of?

Their shits?

If that's a concern, then yes you share your medical issues with a spouse also. No wonder you have had rocky relationships if you are so closed off and shy and willing to lie.

oh so you don't know wvwery detail about your spouse. you suck as a wife or husband.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

what else fo you expect explicir details of?

Their shits?

If that's a concern, then yes you share your medical issues with a spouse also. No wonder you have had rocky relationships if you are so closed off and shy and willing to lie.

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, not concerended about my spouses past sex life therefore i don't need details about it. why are you concerned about your spouse's past sex life.

[Anonymous]

It would be REALLY weird to get into specifics on any of my sexual past. Neither of us do that. Not really clear on why ONS makes a difference vs longer term past relationships.

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Anonymous wrote:The other thread got me wondering. If you had one night stands in college/ your 20s before marriage, do you husbands know about them?

I'm talking about truly one night stands in that you were at a bar or on spring break, met some rando, screwed them, and never saw them again.

I'm just curious how this would even come up as a topic of conversation or how it is relevant to anything.

I'm in this camp. Like I know my husband had a lot of sex before me but I'm not really interested in the details.

I'll never understand this POV. It's like claiming to have a favorite book that you skipped reading 5 chapters of.

What benefit is it to you or your relationship to know exactly who or how your spouse had sex with before you?

Trust building for one. Anyone who balks at answering every detail, is someone you cannot trust.

Anyone who insists on every detail is someone who doesn’t deserve trust.

Anyone who hides everything when asked doesn't deserve trust. See what you did there?