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Anonymous wrote:Feel bad for her kids, only in their 20s.
Daughter is 29 and son is 25. Plenty of people have parents who died when they were younger than those ages!
While that’s true, it’s also true that it’s young overall to lose their parents. It’s not a competition of who had it worse. It’s totally appropriate for someone to feel bad for her kids in a thread about Diane Keaton’s young adult children.
Sure it's sad but, they are over 18 and had a great life with Diane, I'm sure. One should always think of other people to put things into perspective. My dad died when i was 14.
My mom died when I was 24 and it absolutely gutted me. I dont think we need to play the who had it worse game and no it is not necessary to put things into perspective to compare grief. Losing a parent sucks
That's your opinion but I have my opinion too and I have ever right to feel as I do. I am not saying it isn't sad or they aren't gutted. I'm not even saying it is a competition. I am saying they are much better off than they would have been if they had been under 18! And I have the right to my thoughts so fine if you disagree but I am not changing my mind!!!!
No, they are not better off since they are over 18.
It is better this age than 5 and 10. Are you like this in real life? Lacking critical thinking skills?
You are wrong.
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Losing a parent when you are under 18 is seen as more difficult and more tragic because you are still a child, dependent on adults, and didn’t get as long to get to know your parent and make memories. Longer time you get with your parent = more love, more memories.
I fear this is common sense my friend. Cant believe im explaining something so basic.
RIP Diane.
No.
Hard to argue with your well thought out reasoning. Good thing there are studies on this.
Younger loss = higher long-term risk for depression, anxiety, and relational instability (Harvard Bereavement Study, 2017).
Adult loss = higher short-term existential distress, but generally better coping capacity due to developed support systems and cognitive maturity (Journal of Loss and Trauma, 2021).