Most attractive features in men / women

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Hands!!!

Hands down, lol
You know what they said about a "firm hand shack"? But for me it's HOW they hold my hands, I just feel you can tell a lot from that connection!

[Anonymous]

For men: be capable of basic adulting skillls, like making your own medical and dental appointments. Have an opinion about what you want for dinner at least half the time. Also, please have some of your own friends that you spend time with without me at least a few times a year…. It doesn’t have to be overnight trips, but that’s fine too.

Physically… I’m not that picky. Healthy enough to be active and do things like moderate hikes and play outside with the kids.

[Anonymous]

strong forearms and broad shoulders on men

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Anonymous wrote:Yesterday, my new-ish BF and I took my kids and some of their friends to the mall. At one point, I look back at him, and he’s carrying my shopping bags, the kids’ sodas, some mall pretzels, wearing a stack of those candy necklaces, somehow also managing to hold my 3yo’s hand.

I swear there was an immediate flood in my underwear and I had to restrain myself from just taking him then and there.

Absolutely nothing sexier on this entire planet than a man who is dad material.

New-ish is key. He is still trying to win you. I sincerely hope this isn’t the case for you, but I think a lot of times men are just trying to impress us, and we mistake that for the way they authentically are. Ask me how I know.

I did that stuff all the time and ex wife was not aroused by it at all. She did comment on it with appreciation, when I left her.

Sometimes men do the stuff they think they’re supposed to do to win you. Like zero thought dozen roses and dinner at a fancy place. In case this was you, you should know that doesn’t count as trying.

You sound troubled. PP was talking about taking care of his own children.

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Anonymous wrote:Bring your A-game, men. And if it doesn’t include 6-6-6-6, don’t waste my time.

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No scrubs.

6-6-6-6?

What does 6666 mean?

DP
6 feet tall
6 figure Income
6 Pack
Endowment ?

Yes. I’d never heard of these metrics until recently, but DH more than met all 4 requirements, when we were married. MIL always comments on how amazing it is that all of her boys got their pick of wives, but it’s because they were all great catches. The boys can cook, have strong work ethics, and have good character to boot.

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Anonymous wrote:And nothing less sexy than a man or woman who isn’t with their kid’s other bio parent but who brings their dates in to the kid’s life before they’ve left home. This fairy tale ain’t gonna work out for you, sister. And if he’s *super* interested and loving with your young child… watch the F out.

OMFG, stop. Plenty of people can understand how a blended family works. I'm sorry you're stupidly territorial, and seemingly paranoid, but that's a you problem you're projecting onto someone else's story, not the hard truth about how things always go.

Seek help.

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Anonymous wrote:And nothing less sexy than a man or woman who isn’t with their kid’s other bio parent but who brings their dates in to the kid’s life before they’ve left home. This fairy tale ain’t gonna work out for you, sister. And if he’s *super* interested and loving with your young child… watch the F out.

OMFG, stop. Plenty of people can understand how a blended family works. I'm sorry you're stupidly territorial, and seemingly paranoid, but that's a you problem you're projecting onto someone else's story, not the hard truth about how things always go.

Seek help.

Acting like kids in blended families don’t have higher rates of psychological issues is what’s stupid.

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Anonymous wrote:And nothing less sexy than a man or woman who isn’t with their kid’s other bio parent but who brings their dates in to the kid’s life before they’ve left home. This fairy tale ain’t gonna work out for you, sister. And if he’s *super* interested and loving with your young child… watch the F out.

OMFG, stop. Plenty of people can understand how a blended family works. I'm sorry you're stupidly territorial, and seemingly paranoid, but that's a you problem you're projecting onto someone else's story, not the hard truth about how things always go.

Seek help.

Acting like kids in blended families don’t have higher rates of psychological issues is what’s stupid.

So you come from a blended family? Make your own thread about it.

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Very first questions for “Trey” involve 3 out of the 4 minimum requirements for acceptable men (the 6-6-6-6).

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Anonymous wrote:Bring your A-game, men. And if it doesn’t include 6-6-6-6, don’t waste my time.

+1

No scrubs.

6-6-6-6?

What does 6666 mean?

DP
6 feet tall
6 figure Income
6 Pack

That's a low standard, the last one, considering the others.
Endowment ?

Endowed with at least 6 inches (or more).

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Anonymous wrote:Bring your A-game, men. And if it doesn’t include 6-6-6-6, don’t waste my time.

+1

No scrubs.

6-6-6-6?

What does 6666 mean?

DP
6 feet tall
6 figure Income
6 Pack
Endowment ?

Yes. I’d never heard of these metrics until recently, but DH more than met all 4 requirements, when we were married. MIL always comments on how amazing it is that all of her boys got their pick of wives, but it’s because they were all great catches. The boys can cook, have strong work ethics, and have good character to boot.

And a big d*ck? Why on earth did you divorce?

[Anonymous]

My ex:

Never cooked - when he was off a diet, he was always spending a lot on take out. When he was dieting he always complained about what I cooked

Not ambitious - I made the bulk of the income, by a lot

Character - lied to my face for a year during his affair

Sex - ok... this one was good until he got ED in his middle age

In laws - they were the worst

I feel better about my divorce having written this out