Yes, it does. Hire someone from Europe. I have Ukrainian lady cleaning my house and she is amazing! |
| I want a Black leader (should have been Obama) to gather up the leading Black entertainers and athletes & tell them their lifestyles & priorities are setting a horrible example for Black youth. These kids copy their heroes, & if the role models prioritized studying, hard work, & financial responsibility, it could change the country very quickly. |
| Push the WFH agenda. Less traffic, less wear and tear on roads, better for families and everyone in general- convert the office buildings to housing for homeless or low income or elderly. |
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I'm really unmotivated and lack self-discipline. I struggle terribly with making myself do things in which I'm not interested, and also with follow-through...on anything and everything. Part of this is rooted in depression and ADHD (which are treated, how well is questionable, but I've been on just about every antidepressant there is). These things have been lifelong issues but in the past year they've gotten much worse; I'm not even working full-time anymore. I used to be ambitious once upon a time. I barely remember what that feels like. I'm also always exhausted and can fall asleep even after drinking large amounts of caffeine.
I've seen psychiatrists, therapists, executive function specialists, primary care physicians. You got another option for me? |
You seem to be expecting OTHERS to fix you. Only you can fix you. |
| Afternoon babysitting - lots of parents in the market for reliable after school sitters that can shuttle kids to activities / help w homework / meal prep. |
I know that there are services that manage home repairs and perform regular basic service for you. https://myhasslefreehome.com/what-we-do/ is a local example. I'd love to be able to just call them and say "hey. I have a small list - paint the front door, install a door knob, fix a light, fix a toilet - and have them come out without a subscription. I know that you can get the same service with a handyman but good luck finding someone! |
I assume you want to pay $100 for what is at least 8 hours of work? |
Did you not read the post? I WANT to go! I need my documents in order and get my kids citizenship in my home country too. It’s not easy. But a better life never is 😉 |
We have a good handyman/contractor that does most of this (not HVAC). But that's because we paid him well for big projects and were patient. Now call him to fix and outlet or whatever I can't do and he comes between bigger jobs and it's always at least $100 per visit (even if it's a small thing). But he'll fix it and come quick when I need him. I also learned to just fix stuff myself to save $ and only call him when I know I can't (plumbing and bigger electrical or things that require tall ladders). Friends have used him and just compile a list of items that all together will fill a whole day and pay him for the day. |
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So American to try to find a problem to make money off of fellow citizens, when many of these issues could be solved by a tighter-knit community. But it is difficult because people have to pay the rent, etc., and we don't have that type of society.
It's the vulnerabilities in our society that create these "business opportunities" when what we need are closer-knit families and communities. |