What makes a woman a good life partner?

[Anonymous]

This thread is bonkers.

I had to google the garbage bag thing:

https://copd.net/living/smells-and-copd

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Try reading, delivery service grabbed scented, even though I ordered unscented and said do not replace in the notes. Your poor husband must be preying for a fast end.

Have you ever heard of making an exchange? Or getting a replacement? A vagina is not required to do so.
I’m assuming instead you told your wife to deal and then came here to whine about your miserable marriage and name call. And it’s praying. With an “a”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Try reading, delivery service grabbed scented, even though I ordered unscented and said do not replace in the notes. Your poor husband must be preying for a fast end.

Have you ever heard of making an exchange? Or getting a replacement? A vagina is not required to do so.
I’m assuming instead you told your wife to deal and then came here to whine about your miserable marriage and name call. And it’s praying. With an “a”.

I don’t know if a vagina is required. But I can tell you with certainty that it is not sufficient. My beloved husband has accepted that I am not going to return things. Except for a very few stores. He has a choice between returning or losing the money. I do not care which one he chooses. I think he actually chooses to return stuff.

BTW, this is what makes my DH a keeper. He rolls with my weirdness and doesn’t harass me about my hang ups (too much). I try to do the same for him. Married 25+ years, sending our youngest off to college next year. And we still like each other most of the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Get over yourself

If you are the pp, there’s your answer why your marriage is “miserable”.

I am not the PP. I'm a woman who can detect BS from a mile away. The PP I responded to is 100% the reason she is miserable,

Allergies to a faint smell. PUUHHHLLLEEQASSEEEEEEEE

I'm not the PP you're mocking, but chemical smells like plug-ins and scented trash give me headaches and nausea.

Not conducive to a happy home life.

Me too. Instant headaches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Someone who doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

And it’s all small stuff.

Ok but the small stuff unfixed builds so much resentment and then it's very very big stuff. Iykyk

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Get over yourself

Why do I need to deal with allergies and not just buy unscented trash bags?
It's clearly not just one person. On page 1 someone had to take a kid to the ER for a reaction.
I don't understand why you would expose yourself for something that is not needed? Take the trash out instead of trying to scent it. But you're probably a lazy man and happier to just buy the scented bags and wine that the wife is a harpy. Again, it's NOT ABOUT THE BAGS.

I don't buy scented bags but you 100% do not have an allergy to them, princess. You just like to throw that word around to get attention.

Also, he didn't say he got them on purpose to piss off his wife. He selected the correct trash bags and the shopper delivered the wrong ones. So if it really bothers you that much, march your ass to the store and get the ones that aren't going to send you to the ER. You are the one with the problem. Solve it.

This is the key. Women relish in the “I’m always right, you’re always wrong” paradigm until men completely give up. Then they call them man-children for doing nothing around the house. Talk about a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Honestly, if the "paradigm" you're describing is enough to get you to betch out... that's a story about you.

Adults don't play this weaponized incompetence game.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Get over yourself

If you are the pp, there’s your answer why your marriage is “miserable”.

I am not the PP. I'm a woman who can detect BS from a mile away. The PP I responded to is 100% the reason she is miserable,

Allergies to a faint smell. PUUHHHLLLEEQASSEEEEEEEE

I'm not the PP you're mocking, but chemical smells like plug-ins and scented trash give me headaches and nausea.

Not conducive to a happy home life.

I’m mainly mocking the dramatic nature of her post. And again. He didn’t get it on purpose. Nothing is stopping her from returning the bags if it bothers her that much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Try reading, delivery service grabbed scented, even though I ordered unscented and said do not replace in the notes. Your poor husband must be preying for a fast end.

Have you ever heard of making an exchange? Or getting a replacement? A vagina is not required to do so.
I’m assuming instead you told your wife to deal and then came here to whine about your miserable marriage and name call. And it’s praying. With an “a”.

A sane person would have understood by now that she is wrong. Not you though. You keep coming back to show us more crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Try reading, delivery service grabbed scented, even though I ordered unscented and said do not replace in the notes. Your poor husband must be preying for a fast end.

Have you ever heard of making an exchange? Or getting a replacement? A vagina is not required to do so.
I’m assuming instead you told your wife to deal and then came here to whine about your miserable marriage and name call. And it’s praying. With an “a”.

Bwahahaha. You trigger easily.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Try reading, delivery service grabbed scented, even though I ordered unscented and said do not replace in the notes. Your poor husband must be preying for a fast end.

Have you ever heard of making an exchange? Or getting a replacement? A vagina is not required to do so.
I’m assuming instead you told your wife to deal and then came here to whine about your miserable marriage and name call. And it’s praying. With an “a”.

Didn’t need to return them. Put them in the garage to use for random clean up projects. I also do not like the scented bags, but not the end of the world to use because of a delivery persons error. Your poor husband must be a shell of a man by now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If her husband buys the wrong garbage bags she doesn’t have a panic attack and fly into a rage.

This hits home hard. A few months ago I ordered delivery grocery’s and they replaced the unscented I ordered with scented and I am hearing about it still. Yes my marriage is miserable.

Those scented bags are a close #2 to those god awful plug-ins. But also, it's not about the trash bags. You could have returned them and purchased the correct one instead of expecting your wife to do so or deal with them.
I know which products my husband likes, or which makes his skin irritated or whatever. If he brought home scented trash bags, it's because he hasn't paid attention to know that those irritate my allergies. You should think about your own part in your marriage, and schedule some counseling if you think it's just a miserable wife. I can almost guarantee you it's not about the trash bags and it's some other repeated behavior in your marriage that's the problem.

Get over yourself

Why do I need to deal with allergies and not just buy unscented trash bags?
It's clearly not just one person. On page 1 someone had to take a kid to the ER for a reaction.
I don't understand why you would expose yourself for something that is not needed? Take the trash out instead of trying to scent it. But you're probably a lazy man and happier to just buy the scented bags and wine that the wife is a harpy. Again, it's NOT ABOUT THE BAGS.

I don't buy scented bags but you 100% do not have an allergy to them, princess. You just like to throw that word around to get attention.

Also, he didn't say he got them on purpose to piss off his wife. He selected the correct trash bags and the shopper delivered the wrong ones. So if it really bothers you that much, march your ass to the store and get the ones that aren't going to send you to the ER. You are the one with the problem. Solve it.

This is the key. Women relish in the “I’m always right, you’re always wrong” paradigm until men completely give up. Then they call them man-children for doing nothing around the house. Talk about a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Honestly, if the "paradigm" you're describing is enough to get you to betch out... that's a story about you.

Adults don't play this weaponized incompetence game.

+1
There are some seriously immature (or maybe just one repeatedly) husbands posting on here. I am so glad not to be married to someone like this. There is a saying you can be married, or you can be right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Someone who doesn’t sweat the small stuff.

And it’s all small stuff.

Right? Women are always like “the kid needs her medicine EVERY day” or like “fruit snacks are not dinner” and “4 days in the same underwear is too long”

So lame!

[Anonymous]

I am just so tickled that a thread about good traits of women has devolved into a thread about men being lazy idiots and killer trash bags. This topic has attracted a truly miserable bunch!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Integrity, intelligence and kindness.

+1. Honesty, integrity, accountability.
Same as a man.

+2

[Anonymous]

For trash bag marriages, getting rid of trash bags altogether would be a good compromise. Just get a trash compactor and keep more trash cans and take turns to wash those cans regularly.