How do you feel when strangers in public compliment your looks?
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Anonymous
I think so. I’m a woman, and I recently complimented an older gentleman on his shirt - I was wearing one similar and told him “what a great shirt!” As I was exiting the grocery store and he was walking in. He beamed the biggest smile and I definitely don’t think he thought I was hitting on him. Maybe it depends on the compliment? I used to compliment men when they got hair cuts. Just “did you get a hair cut? Looks nice.” If you’re like “wow you have the most gorgeous blue eyes I’ve ever seen in my life” then, yeah, maybe it’s getting into flirting territory. I commented on this thread previously, but it makes me want to commit to telling one person a day a nice compliment. A sincere, non creepy compliment lol. |
Anonymous
Here’s the context: Brad Pitt = cute and flirty Anyone less attractive = maximum creep! |
Anonymous
| I would like to compliment plenty of women on their looks but afraid to out of fear of trying to hit on them. Like at my gym so many fit and shapely ladies working out, how can I say you are looking great without sounding creepy. If I said something like you have an amazing ass I would probably get in trouble. I'm wondering if they really need the compliments since they probably know their have the goods and are secure about it. |
Anonymous
No, you need to keep your mouth shut if those are the “compliments” you’re thinking. 100% you’ll sound like a creep, and as a fun bonus, may even get kicked out of your gym for making women uncomfortable. On second thought, why not give it a go? |
Anonymous
| This thread is pretty interesting. I’m female (African American) and complement men and women all the time. I also get compliments on the regular. This past Sunday, I was walking through DuPont farmers market and received at least 7 compliments from men and women. Not because I’m stunning or even super attractive, but I smile a lot. When walking around in public, I make a point to smile at everyone who meets my eyes. I’m pretty sure that’s why I get complimented so often. I’m also a huge flirt. |
Anonymous
Same. |
Anonymous
| I don't mind it from the same sex (and for reference I'm heterosexual) - but could do without it from the opposite sex. Basically I don't like randos to flirt with me in public. But "your hair is really pretty" or "I like your earrings" from another lady is fine by me. I'm also down for compliments from a clearly gay guy, and in fact those are the most flattering to me. I'm in my early 40s and don't get as many compliments as I used to, so I appreciate them a bit more now in general. |
Anonymous
| I'm flattered. It's never bothered me when men cat call or whistle. I suppose I could find it scary if I was alone with one of them in a dark alley but on a sunny street with lots of people I take it as a compliment! |
Anonymous
This made me chuckle because it's so true. Once I was walking down a sidewalk and a guy stops me in my tracks. "Can I just tell you that you are fabulous. I'm having such a girl crush right now." I was glowing over that one. |
Anonymous
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That was a very nice sentiment.
And you seemed to really appreciate it. As long as it is told to me by someone who is not creepy then I would accept the comment graciously. 💝 |