Workday Contact- Infidelity Indicator

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a licensed counselor that browses this board.

I'm here to drop a bombshell on all of you, or maybe a few.

Lack of contact during the work day is the biggest red flag there is when you suspect infidelity. Especially so amongst couples that routinely text during the day otherwise.

If your spouse is usually very responsive to texts and calls during the work day but has 'events', or 'bigwigs in town', or a 'team birthday dinner' and they go radio silent? That is when they are cheating.

You are welcome.


I know a guy that still texts his wife during the day and cheats for an hour once a week on his way home

I've been in the room and in the car with a guy when he has been on the phone with and/or texting his wife. He can still be texting and calling and cheating at the same time.

My idol!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think the idea that a spouse needs to be on their phone all day while they work is nonsense.

Everyone should be able to go hours without being on the phone with their spouse without being accused of infidelity.

You should focus more on your clients instead of being on your phone all day to show you aren’t cheating.


+1

So dumb


+2. Task switching is terrible for your brain. I’ll check my phone once at lunch and when I’m done working but unless it’s an emergency I don’t respond during work hours.


How would you know if it's an emergency if only check your phone once a day?

Reading comprehension.

I’ll check my phone once at lunch and when I’m done working
This means he checks for texts / emails / etc. twice before leaving the workplace, not once for the whole day.

but unless it’s an emergency I don’t respond during work hours
An emergency typically comes in the form of a phone call, not a text or email. If he didn't silence it, calls are usually treated differently than an email (you step out of a meeting to take a potentially important call, but ignore a text).


Whole lot of assumptions there, chief. That makes you an ass.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My husband isn’t a big texter and mostly keeps his cell phone in his briefcase. At the same time he avoids after work events with a passion. It helps that he’s a CEO and is in control. If I really need to reach him I call his assistant. She’s great!

Is this satire? He's totally banging his assistant during work hours.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a licensed counselor that browses this board.

I'm here to drop a bombshell on all of you, or maybe a few.

Lack of contact during the work day is the biggest red flag there is when you suspect infidelity. Especially so amongst couples that routinely text during the day otherwise.

If your spouse is usually very responsive to texts and calls during the work day but has 'events', or 'bigwigs in town', or a 'team birthday dinner' and they go radio silent? That is when they are cheating.

You are welcome.


I know a guy that still texts his wife during the day and cheats for an hour once a week on his way home

I've been in the room and in the car with a guy when he has been on the phone with and/or texting his wife. He can still be texting and calling and cheating at the same time.

My idol!


What a scumbag- both of you
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