DH never says no to sex

[Anonymous]

Your DH didn't say no to me either...

[Anonymous]

This one is easy.

Men rarely, if ever say NO to sex.

I state this as a fact….vs. an opinion.

Lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:10 years into our marriage, two kids, and one night, while recovering from the flu and just feeling like death I turned her down.

This woman, who I had enjoyed years with asked me if I was gay upon hearing my rejection.

Lol hilarious

The thing is, you do hear about husbands being secretly gay. So I understand the concern.

[Anonymous]

27 years together, he’s never turned it down. Sick, injured, tired doesn’t matter. And if we’re alone together, he interprets everything as an invitation. Like I can literally hand him the mail and he’s ready to go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:27 years together, he’s never turned it down. Sick, injured, tired doesn’t matter. And if we’re alone together, he interprets everything as an invitation. Like I can literally hand him the mail and he’s ready to go.

He is high libido. Count your blessings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH is the same. Never says no.

But if he ask and I do say no, he mas* right in the bed that night and his fluids are all over the sheets and clothes. Hmm.

Do you think he is deliberately doing that to get at me?

Eww, that's pretty gross.
- signed, a guy

[Anonymous]

My husband never says no such that on NYE he was watching a Penn State bowl game, he’s a grad. Freshly showered I walked into the den wearing a long silk nightgown and said I’m heading to bed. He followed within a minute. I’m sure he recorded the game but I love testing his priorities. We’ve been married 29 years so I’m pretty happy that he still puts me ahead of his team.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This one is easy.

Men rarely, if ever say NO to sex.

I state this as a fact….vs. an opinion.

Lol.

I married the only guy in the world who can or leave sex. He's the only guy I've ever known who felt like that. Given his extremely low energy levels, it's probably low T.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:10 years into our marriage, two kids, and one night, while recovering from the flu and just feeling like death I turned her down.

This woman, who I had enjoyed years with asked me if I was gay upon hearing my rejection.

I have the opposite. I dated the same girl from 18-20 and pretty much tried to have sex multiple times every single day. Then one day at college, post sex in my dorm room, she asks me, gently, if I think I'm gay "because I want sex so much"

I still have no idea what she meant, but no, I'm not gay and 30 years later I till want sex every single day. Lucky for me my wife is similar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This one is easy.

Men rarely, if ever say NO to sex.

I state this as a fact….vs. an opinion.

Lol.

I married the only guy in the world who can or leave sex. He's the only guy I've ever known who felt like that. Given his extremely low energy levels, it's probably low T.

Sometimes it’s the woman’s fault. Over time, unenthusiastic vanilla sex isn’t worth the effort though it’s better than nothing for many.

[Anonymous]

I think I have maybe said no once in 27 years. When I had cracked ribs. Can’t remember if we ended up with a yes within an hour or so after.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH says no most of the time, maybe you rarely initiate?

NP. Or maybe your husband just isn’t attracted to you? Sounds like a you issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your Johnson is still working you are most less likely to say No. But if you have reached that point where your Johnson is not always reliable and you are in denial (is refusing to see a doc for Viagra) then you will look for excuses to say No. Women don't always understand the "trauma" that men go through when their Johnson is no longer reliable. If you are a man Our culture emphasizes your erection and size when it comes to sex. When your erection is no longer reliable even your own wife will start putting pressure on you to get it fixed. It is what it is.

Which is incredibly ridiculous given that women's satisfaction usually does not depend on your member.

[Anonymous]

I never said no until I decided to divorce ex W.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH is the same. Never says no.

But if he ask and I do say no, he mas* right in the bed that night and his fluids are all over the sheets and clothes. Hmm.

Do you think he is deliberately doing that to get at me?

He's having sex because he wants to have sex. He invited you, and you declined, so he did it alone. Why is this confusing?

Being messy and not cleaning up is a problem, certainly. Tell him to clean up his act. Get him a good towel for it, or tell him to fix his setup.