Leave it up to the parents. Letter grades are sent home on ParentVue, there is no need to tell the child they have whatever grade or show them report card. Universal obscurity of academics for all is not the answer |
Equity. If you don’t clue in the engaged parents, the checked out parents kids won’t fall as far behind |
Here’s what it boils down to. I don’t think that level of diligence is necessary for a NT kid in elementary school who is giving all signals they are following along in school via standardized testing, teacher input, and your own observations of them in real life. In middle school if you are observing issues, which is most likely executive functioning, studying and test taking skills, that’s the time to step in and offer assistance. If they have missed some skill from elementary school they need, they will figure it out and learn it. Just one persons opinion. And I have two teens in high school getting straight As in the most rigorous classes offered. Some of you are going to wear yourselves out before you get to the actual challenging parts. |
lol. Yes it’s a vast conspiracy! |
Straights As at an APS public school? Stop the presses. Let’s talk when they are in a competitive college. |
Elementary schools do not put grades on ParentVue. |
You have zero clue what you’re talking about, big surprise. A kid who is carrying a heavy course load of APs or in full IB is working if they are getting straight As. But go back to your talking points, please. |
I literally looked at my students report card “all 2s” for a student reading 2 grades above in ParentVue. Do you mean they don’t populate the “Gradebook” tab? |
Again, pass the AP test with 5s is the key point. PP did not say that. My high school all kids got an A in the AP classes, but no one got above a 3. |
My 7th grader is getting letter grades but I think they have moved in the same direction of assessing year long standards because she got “meets expectations” for everything which is not consistent with what we were told at conferences or past performance where she would have had several “exceeds” I think middle school teachers just have a lot of students so it takes more to stand out and get an exceeds expectations. I'd bet that many teachers basically give a "meets" to everyone who isn't a problem. You are talking about the comments section of the middle school report card. Many....most teachers do not consistently fill these out. If they do, know it's a made effort. They are not required to fill them out at all and many quarters my kid's (both high achievers) are completely blank. This is separate from grades. This convo is about elementary report cards. |
Wait let me guess. You reviewing their math unit tests in 3rd grade is going to get them to the competitive college. Good plan report back in 10 years. You’re doing it. |
That can be fine for you and your kids, but other kids may need extra support on certain topics. It's hardly tiger parenting to see a poor unit test score and then make sure the kid understands the subject, as math spirals and it will come up again. In fact, most consider that good parenting. It's far better to fill those gaps before the house of cards collapses and you have a stressed kid who is really behind and have to pay for an expensive tutor. |
You're really being critical of a parent who wants to make sure their kid understands the on grade level material? |
I am person you are responding to. I agree with you. Please note the first part of my answer that gave all the qualifiers about a kid who is generally following along and going to get it. A kid who needs more support, I would personally press for more info. I just wonder how many people posting here really fit that category. Also a lot of kids have math tutors in particular by high school. This surprised me. Not because they missed skills but because the content moves fast if they are strong in math and a teacher has 100 kids and if they need a bit more on something this is how they’re going to get it. |
No I’m being critical of people who say stupid things about how all public school kids get straight As. |