Successful attorney here. I didn't even know that legal fraternities existed, lol. I Googled them and apparently undergrads and law students are members? But no one at my law school would have been interested in such a thing -- at my ls people put their energy toward law review or moot court or one of the clinics or political groups like PILF or Federalist Society. |
It hasn’t always been this way. It’s a new thing at some schools. |
My child attends an Ivy. He is not having problems with joining clubs. No, he is not rich or an athlete. He is an introverted nerd, but he has a laid-back personality that people seem to be drawn to. He is pretty chill and easy going. My child joined some clubs, and the other students welcomed him with open arms. Actually, since school started, my child is getting bombarded with invitations to join clubs. |
It isn’t your kid’s personality- it is that he isn’t going for clubs with limited spots. |
That’s bc they weren’t a thing when you went to school. |
Exactly. Penn. Lots of nepo babies in the club scene. |
Not fake. This is true for a wide range of clubs. |
OP here. Penn. |
| This is ridiculous. The top business schools get the best speakers and have the best perks. Their clubs are not application only. You have to network wide with good people to run a successful business. As someone who does run a sizable enterprise, I’m skeptical of anyone who promotes this culture. |
| Club applications are not exclusive to ivy schools. Even occurs at *gasp* public schools. |
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OP, I think this is happening everywhere — not just the Ivies. My kids attend OOS state colleges and many of the clubs are competitive there, too.
Take a read of Colin Jost’s book — he talks about trying out for the Harvard Lampoon. He failed over and over gain, but he persisted and eventually got in. |
| This is also prevelent at Berkeley. |
Agreed. The whole thing stinks -- Ivy or anywhere else. |
| Welcome to life. |
| That's weird. I went to MIT, so not an Ivy, but this wasn't a thing there. I walked on a sports team with no experience, clubs, etc. Only exception was rush / recruitment. |