Sad about this

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wasn’t testing him, I really thought he’d be able to help bc it’s his area. He loves helping with things and loves to be asked.

DP Yes, you were testing him and he didn't pass. He's never going to meet the "competency" tests you've made up. Do him a favor and move on.

NP

Curious what he does do well for work or school or sports or basic life requirements?

Following YouTube everytime is not ideal. It means he doesn’t know or can’t retain/remember things.

Have you talked about life experiences much? What he did while growing up, favorite teams or vacation spots, favorite teacher, best friend, funny stories, etc.?
Does he have any? Does he have opinions on things or just tag along?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He either has executive function issues or doesn’t want to go on vacation with you. About the work stuff - unless you tell us what it is, we can’t give an opinion.

Agree

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wasn’t testing him, I really thought he’d be able to help bc it’s his area. He loves helping with things and loves to be asked.

DP Yes, you were testing him and he didn't pass. He's never going to meet the "competency" tests you've made up. Do him a favor and move on.

NP

Curious what he does do well for work or school or sports or basic life requirements?

Following YouTube everytime is not ideal. It means he doesn’t know or can’t retain/remember things.

Have you talked about life experiences much? What he did while growing up, favorite teams or vacation spots, favorite teacher, best friend, funny stories, etc.?
Does he have any? Does he have opinions on things or just tag along?

Shit tests. Break up with anyone who pulls this shit

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like you’re looking for a wallet. You want him to pay for your international trip together? If budget is an issue you can stay “domestic” - gimme a break. You’re just another ho looking for a free ride. I wouldn’t fix a thing for you.

OP. F off. Nowhere did I say I asked or expect him to pay. You’re just a misogynist incel.
PS I have more assets and higher income than he does and I work fulltime, so bite me.

What a lovely lady you are, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like you’re looking for a wallet. You want him to pay for your international trip together? If budget is an issue you can stay “domestic” - gimme a break. You’re just another ho looking for a free ride. I wouldn’t fix a thing for you.

OP. F off. Nowhere did I say I asked or expect him to pay. You’re just a misogynist incel.
PS I have more assets and higher income than he does and I work fulltime, so bite me.

What a lovely lady you are, OP.

The boyfriend's weaponized incompetence is understandable, maybe even intentional. Sometimes people do that to passive aggressively get back at people who are mean.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like you’re looking for a wallet. You want him to pay for your international trip together? If budget is an issue you can stay “domestic” - gimme a break. You’re just another ho looking for a free ride. I wouldn’t fix a thing for you.

OP. F off. Nowhere did I say I asked or expect him to pay. You’re just a misogynist incel.
PS I have more assets and higher income than he does and I work fulltime, so bite me.

What a lovely lady you are, OP.

She’s not wrong. That poster is a sexist troll.