Check on Son?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:annnnd it's mommy to the rescue!

Let the kid grow up.

If he had called you from the front lines of Afghanistan would you have gotten on a plane?

Doesn't sound like this kid is going to the front lines of Afghanistan so she's safe there.

Why so rude?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t go without warning, but I would send him a text saying something like “thinking of coming your way this afternoon; can we take you out for dinner?” so he gets to be in control of whether he sees you or not but doesn’t have to ask you to come.

This combined with potentially going over things like the PP above suggested.

[Anonymous]

Father of 2 grown boys and a daughter, also a retired Army officer here. In general unless there is actual concern for safety it's best to reassure and let them handle tough situations on their own.

In my time in the Army growing and mentoring young soldiers I have seen time and time again that most people learn and develop resiliency given the opportunity.

In short, no I wouldn't visit. I would ask how he is doing without blowing up his phone. Tell them that they are capable of pushing through challenges.

[Anonymous]

Go take him out to diner away from school.