This! If you pay for your kid’s school (tuition, books, housing) and for his transport to and from home, that is incredibly generous of you. With those huge gifts, don’t you think you should teach your child to live within his means? If he wants to work to afford laundry services, fine. |
Yes. And they will continue to think this is the norm. Last I check college is about learning all about wise time management. My kid knows that Friday at 8 am NO ONE is using the laundry room. Their machines are set up to alert you when they are finished by 10 am he's all done for the week and off to class. He brought enough t-shirt/shorts/underwear to last 2 weeks if he needs to. He's survived just fine for 3 years. There is no way I would suggest we pay for a laundry service unless he was sick. |
Which most college students are, unless you are funding every single thing for them |
I would not do this. It is part of the college experience and being on your own. Every dorm has machines. Every city has laundromats. They need to figure this out. It isn’t that laundry is some critical life skill, but it is about managing your time and resources; getting the menial tasks done around other important tasks. There might come a time when outsourcing laundry makes sense, but as college undergrad, no. Most don’t even have jobs. They have few things outside of studying and attending classes that they need to do. If they find it unmanageable, then they can do figure out and pay for laundry service. As a parent, this isn’t something I would coordinate |
+1 |
It isn’t that laundry is some important skill, it isn’t.
But this is the first time your kid is now and adult on their own, kind of. They don’t have a job and other life stressors, they can/should manage these basics. The more important lesson is taking care of yourself, your belongings, and your living quarters. Doing this yourself is a good lesson in stewardship and self-sufficiency. There may be a time when hiring it out makes sense, but as a college freshman, hard no. That is just being lazy |
You're kidding, right? Laundry is part of the executive functioning for adulthood that college should in theory be fostering. If DC doesn't have a disability, then heck no on outsourcing the laundry. Geez. |
Alum here. It's not quite that wraparound, and it also depends on the college and the exact living facilities. |
Let it go, OP. DC needs to figure out himself when the sheets are disgusting and make himself deal with them. How else will he learn? |
Our child went from college to executive management and didn't have time for laundry so he hired a house cleaner to take of things. So you may want to check yourself on these life skills bs. |
How is this applicable to a college freshman situation? |
At my kid's school, not all housing has it's own washer and dryer. And yes, there are laundromats in that city, but not all within an easy walking distance and it can be a hassle to ride the bus with a huge laundry hamper. While my kid's housing has always had laundry in the building, I wouldn't fault a kid whose building did not have it for paying for a service. |
Stop coddling him. He will wash them or he won’t. Let it go. If you go through with this, you really would not be making a good parenting decision . (You are out of touch with how old he is and the fact that your job is no longer to take care of things like this. ) |
Wow, go you. Some of us are too busy to clean our own 7000 sq ft house or mow our 5 acre lot. I do wash my own car though. Please don't expect everyone to live as you do. We are all different. |
I don't understand parents who can mind their own Effing business? I have not college aged kid but what other parents allow with their kid's laundry will not be a concern of mine. What else are you nosy about in life? Geez. Get a life. |