Wife takes bus on day off at 630 to go grocery shopping

[Anonymous]

Guys. Yall saying take her to the dentist...she already did last week.

She also walks down the street to gas station that sells food at 9 pm to get food. Cause of her tooth. When there is stuff to eat here. Her buddy who works there night shift made her chicken the other night. He made her fresh chicken and she said he didnt charge her for it. Only charged for the soda.

Tonight she wants to go there to get a soda and im like why wait till 9 pm again to walk ten min down the street to the gas station to get a soda when you have been home all day.

So fellas thanks for your sarcastic comments making me seem like a controlling monster.

[Anonymous]

Go to the gas station. Send someone you know to the gas station and let you know what they are doing

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm more concerned that she can't eat properly because of her tooth. I bet should couldn't sleep well, either, which is why she was up so early. She needs to see a dentist immediately. Once her health improves, so will her early shopping habits.

THIS. It's your day off work, OP, call the dentist immediately and drive her there yourself, FFS!

You, OP, are focused on her going to the store when you should be focused on why your wife is in so much pain she didn't eat last night.

Get your priorities straight like a grown-up should.

She is an adult, not a child. Why would OP make appointments for her. And surely if she needed a ride she would ask for one.
I would be upset if my husband took over and infantilized me like you are saying to do.

FFS, the point is that he's fixated on her grocery trip but not showing any concern or help for the fact she's obviously in need of medical care. But go ahead, call it "infantalizing" if your DH dares to offer to assist you while you're in pain. How pitiable, that you'd be angry and feel condescended to if your spouse gave a damn about your feeling unwell and insulted you by offering a freaking ride to the dentist or doctor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guys. Yall saying take her to the dentist...she already did last week.

She also walks down the street to gas station that sells food at 9 pm to get food. Cause of her tooth. When there is stuff to eat here. Her buddy who works there night shift made her chicken the other night. He made her fresh chicken and she said he didnt charge her for it. Only charged for the soda.

Tonight she wants to go there to get a soda and im like why wait till 9 pm again to walk ten min down the street to the gas station to get a soda when you have been home all day.

So fellas thanks for your sarcastic comments making me seem like a controlling monster.

Why wait until 9? So she can see her friend who's on the late shift. But you know this. I'm surprised she's up for the walk, considering she was up so early to hit the grocery store. /s