It boggles my mind that sibling preference is even a question on this thread. As a parent, having to drop your kids off at multiple schools is a huge inconvenience. (just visit the 100s of comments on the Maury/Miner potential merger, and those schools are only a few blocks apart). Step outside of your own world for a second and see the system as a whole, and there is no question. For the sake of the families, for less cars having to trek across town to different schools, for continuity in school communities, sibling preference should never be a question. |
There's a really easy solution for that mind-boggling problem: Parents who don't want to drop kids off at multiple schools can send their kids to their in-bound DCPS schools and then they wouldn't have to worry about that. Oh, would it not be fair that families with many children would then basically have to go to their less-desirable IB schools instead of doing the lottery? It's funny how it's easy for you to presume that's a fine solution for the families that don't get sibling preference so that it doesn't inconvenience yours. |
They could give only one lottery number to all siblings so if they both lottery the same year they don’t get double chance at a good number. This leaves preference intact when you are leaving an older student enrolled. |
| Op you should just moved or pay for private. After reading all your comments I don’t think you are going to be happy at any school in DC (or maybe any where.) |
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There is a such thing as too many choices. That's what most people go thru with DCPS, Charters, and Privates. We had too many friends and acquaintances that moved to VA or MD for what they thought were greener pastures. The results were mixed and some just lied to save face.
At the end of the day, we decided to follow our neighbors advice. They are DC Lottery and DCPS vets DCPS for elem-Private MS-Banneker/Walls for HS. The private MS was critical b/c of placement if the HS didn't work out. No guarantees either way.....
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I'm sure OP will take your educated thoughts under advisement. Hahahahahaha. |
I am glad I can help! |
I think there is just one person questioning sibling preference and we are all arguing with her. I have never heard that take in my 20 years in DC. |
….Or the complaining PP can just go to her in-boundary school instead of complaining about sibling preference…. I only one kid btw and do not see how this is controversial at all. Makes a lot of sense from a city-wide perspective. |
Op is the one complaining about sibling preference. |
Didn't the OP just ask an innocent question about when to expect results? |
Ha, you are probably right. Of all the (valid) things to criticize DC for, this seems like such an odd battle to pick. And FWIW, my kids are at our Title 1 IB middle and elementary, so sibling preference didn't really impact me either way, I just see bigger picture it is better for families across the city. And sure, maybe as a result, it will shut some families of charters, then they can enroll in IB or other schools - anybody who pays attention can notice how increasing enrollment in any schools is a benefit. Title 1 schools near me have benefited from increased staff, specials, instructional coaches an after school options due to increased enrollment, not to mention more parents to help/volunteer in various ways. As much as it may seem it may, the world does not end if you don't get into a school - and yes to agree with all of the other posters - silver lining of the past 5 years, the rose colored glasses are starting to come off, which I think is a good thing. And if you ever glimpse into the VA or MD forums, or actually talk to people who send their kids to school there, sure the feeder pyramids may be more clear, but parents find a whole bunch of other things to stress and worry about. |
But they likely would have wound up with the same choice in DC. As a parent of a kid with ADHD, I don't find the lottery to be helpful. Most charters are pretty bad with special needs and IEPs -- most parents of SN kids I know in the district will recommend sticking with DCPS, which tends to be more responsive and where the SN infrastructure is very well established. Some DCPS are better than others, but if your IB isn't doing a good job with yours, it's a total crapshoot whether you could get into another that would be any better, and sometimes it's hard to evaluate that from the outside anyway unless you can talk to families with similar issues who have been through it. Basically if you have a child with SN, you have to get used to using all the resources at your disposal (and also learn how to get more resources at your disposal). I'm actually a bit surprised your friends went with a private because you have more rights at a by-right public school and if you make a stink about things, they pretty much have to provide your child with accommodations and services deemed necessary for your kid. A private does not. But the dirty secret in DC is that even though charters are also required to provide these accommodations, many do not, or are very ineffective at doing it even when they want to (charters have a harder time retaining SpEd staff, in part because they often do not pay as well). Charters in DC have a much lower percentage of kids with IEPs than DCPS schools, and there are multiple reasons for this but one of them is that a lot of families don't have a great experience with IEPs at Charters. Anyway, long story short, everyone assumes that more choice is going to be better for kids with special needs, but that's not necessarily the case. There's no reason for your friends to assume that if they'd stayed in DC, their child's needs would have been better met, even with the lottery as an option. |
| I think some interesting points have been made only about IB siblings having a preference over other IB students for PreK, especially now that there is separately also an IB equity preference. Most single child families do not meet the stereotype of 2 wealthy older parebts. Lots and lots of only children live with a single parent or extended family where access to nearby preK is no less important for those families. |
Thanks for this. I was the one who asked about Takoma. Thank you for taking your time to answer. This is helpful. Teacher specific seems like a risk had at any school (like you said) but are you thinking there may be more "bad" than good at Takoma than a Whitier or a charter? We have neighbors who love Breakthrough, DCB, etc. This may not be the thread for that. Was only curious about why Whittier gets more attention than the other DCPS school less than a mile away. Almost feels like both schools would be part of the same overall Brightwood, Manor, Takoma community for all families to play at the playground, etc. |